I reference tactical because it's where I see the most egregious errors in competition and training, I would list handgun as next. Benchrest, precision shooting, cowboy and non tactical shotgun sports (except for a few competitors) seem to be a better ordered lot. They're safe and their equipment is not promoted as self/home defense.I respect that you have an opinion and I will continue to read it with enthusiasm. My opinion is a bit different. I don't think kids and older teens and many in their 20's and 30's that have not been in the military are interested in shooting if they have to study the Taliban vs U.S. Forces or understand combat differences between WWII, Korea, Vietnam or the Middle East. If they wish to study history and current events I would encourage that, but not make it a prerequisite to be recognized as a valuable member of the shooting fraternity. Perhaps I am reading your words wrong, but you make reference to fighting, combat, and defense in a lot of your post.
Make shooting hard work and no play and there will be few interested. Make it enjoyable and those who take a serious interest will voluntarily invest with hard work to attain their goals.
If it's a safety issue it needs to be addressed and from my perspective the youth do not have a corner on poor safety conduct, that award goes equally to all age groups. Public, private, and club ranges are all part responsible and from what I have seen many have woefully failed in that respect. Certainly not all, but many. Safety starts on the home court and when we see a safety violation as leaders, after making the correction, we need to seriously consider if we have made a failure. Many times I have seen those responsible for safety blame only the violator.
As for high tech, it's here to stay. Yes the ability to perform the old way certainly has value, but between all the wars you have made an example it was high tech that paved the way to victory being pushed by determined blood and guts. Kids today grow up with high tech, but to them it is not high tech, it's just normal stuff, why not use it to trap their interest?
As for the monetary investment being to extreme for some of the younger men and women, that is understandable in most all sports and what we have to face in everyday life. So maybe a youngster cannot afford to compete in F Class or Benchrest with the top shooters. Maybe they can enjoy shooting a pistol or a carbine or a rimfire, and maybe as they grow up and build their career they can afford better equipment. Make it enjoyable and attainable on any of the many levels and a certain percentage will take to playing games and some will make a competition out of it, and from that you have a new competitor.
Handgun and tactical rifles/shotguns are regularly promoted as self/home defense firearms by careless individuals. That situation requires an entirely different mindset.
I've seen some shit! However If I'm with my family in a dangerous situation involving gun fire and we all use our heads and get everyone to safety and never use a firearm I WON, WE WON! All fights are to be avoided.
The moment that you fire your weapon in a fight you've lost, the best you can do after that is survive.
Training does not start with the firearm it starts with how to use your mind. If your concerned about safety, if you can be responsible try a dog, a 20 to 40 pound dog that barks is a great security measure.
Using your head, avoid confrontation, be aware of your situation, there are hundreds of great safety considerations never discussed. What gets marketed is bad in most cases, lots of cheap FMJ, higher capacity firearms, FBI penetration requirements, but near zero consideration for possible collateral injury. If you're a decent human injuring or killing someone makes you sick, doing it by stupidity is devastating, having to do it to save a life makes it a litte better but we need to talk about avoidance more that gadgets.
I understand technology, I have 8 computers in my home and made my living with it, yes it's here to stay but like a child, they're born, learn to roll over, then crawl, then stand, then walk and finally run.
Master the basics, it builds your confidence, augment your skills with innovations, study every technique possible. (Read Rex Applegate as well as everyone else.) When needed this skill set will help you avoid problems and if unavoidable deal with them in a manner that will help you emotionally deal with the consequences. Those consequences will not be good.
We go to the range and we play games, especially with self defense firearms and that's fun and good but we're forgetting that it's never really a game.