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Report on Surgery Relevant for Older Males

When talking about PSA's sometimes the numbers lie. During my ordeal with bladder cancer all of my prostate test were within normal ranges, never above .2. When the bladder had to go the surgeon said the prostate goes also because he didn't want to go back in in 6months to a year later to remove it. He is a urologist/oncologist, very experienced and highly regarded.
Upon removal it went to pathology, wait for it, it came back stage 4. My urologist still can't believe it because all the test showed nothing wrong with it.
I don't even try to explain it, all I tell guys over 40 is to make sure they get tested at least once a year.
My cancers were inevitable I was a firefighter for 21 years and an oil burner tech. for over 30 years, all that smoke and fumes took its toll.
 
Jeff glad to hear you're on the mend and caught it early.

I'm 4B prostate, completed my radiation in August and will complete my hormone therapy April 2027 (2yrs). Last weekend I had my first range session since early spring, I was pretty tired after but felt really nice to get back to the range.

I can't tell enough men, if you're 50+ get a yearly PSA test it's a simple cheap test that's a great indicator for most men. If you have anyone in your family male/female that's had any reproductive related cancer, start checking PSA at 40. Not only might it save your life, but it's far easier to simply remove the prostate than deal with metastasis and everything that goes with it. -- Jeff
 
I went through the radiation treatment. I was getting blood work done every 6 months and PSA was included, so I saw the number creeping up. When it got over 5, I had the tests done and confirmed the cancer. Went through the radiation, which really was terrible, more uncomfortable than anything. After 4 years now, my PSA is at .25. Glad I didn't do the full removal.
 
I went through the radiation treatment. I was getting blood work done every 6 months and PSA was included, so I saw the number creeping up. When it got over 5, I had the tests done and confirmed the cancer. Went through the radiation, which really was terrible, more uncomfortable than anything. After 4 years now, my PSA is at .25. Glad I didn't do the full removal.
The Slice & Dice option has a lot of risk of incontinence, your soldier never standing at attention again and other unpleasant side effects…
 
Since I started this I will give you an update. Nine days out never had any pain, never took a pill, some very minor discomfort first two days. Bladder 95%+ under control already. Go for pathology report next week and hopefully done. All you guys who don't, need to get regular blood testing and at least yearly physicals. Happy Thaksgiving Day to all, I have lots to be thankful about, and I am.
 
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The Slice & Dice option has a lot of risk of incontinence, your soldier never standing at attention again and other unpleasant side effects…
First of, you sound like someone with normal fears, I had them. Now I realize at 78 I have a some what different perspective than if I was 40 but today most solve incontinence in less than a year . Everyone of the men I have talked to that have had Robotic Prosectemy had bladder control in 3 no or less. My airgin buddy who is 8 years younger than me was forced into the chemo / radiation/ hormone route due to his prostate being so large they would not evrn do the Open style surgery. So he has suffured through all the side effects of what CRH causes. Plus if you go that route to avoid surgery the radiation causes problems that makes open surgery if needed later a poor or even not an option.He even went to a name big city hospital for a second opinion.....No not a canidate for surgery. No unpleasant side effects for me or any of the men I know who have had my procedure. Do yourself a favour and see a surgeon with a good reputation. My guy has 5 stars in all the surveys, I had probably saw dozen options locally but I did my home work. Plus my 30 yr family Dr highly recommended him. Quit spreading bad informatio, it could kill someone.
 
Tuesday the 18th I had a Robatic Assisted Prostectemy. So now 2 days later still no pain. Twinge across the waist getting up or down but less each time. Was I apprehensive and nervous? Yes and no. I had a lot of friends praying for me and was comfortable just leaving everything in God's hands, the Great Physician. Don't wait, it won't go away but it will kill you. I had a double hernia fixed 6 months turning the 3 hr procedure into 5 hr, but all good. Mine was maximum size for this procedure to remove in 1 piece, Dr said it was larger than a tennis ball. I never had any issues but get a regular 6 month checkup. I'm 78 and started the checkups about 30 years ago, always been healthy. PSA number creeping up until my family Dr made me see a Urologist. I had a lot of choices, I went with my Drs pick, glad I did. So listen up guys, save your life. Only downside limited to 10lbs for 3 months, it will pass. I did it, so can anyone of you.
Had mine out in 2009. Still kicking at 80. They say prostate cancer can return in 10 years so I think I'm safe! Good luck with your rehab. That was the hardest part for me since I'm a golfer. Had to wait longer to get back to normal. Guess I had a bad dr though. Bladder is not normal & sex is non existent even with all the pills & stuff available. Oh well I'm alive & still married!
 
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I cannot see I cannot pee
The golden years have come and passed
The golden years can kiss my ass.

Best wishes Jeff, both my dad and his brother had prostrate cancer, I suppose I will too. My PSA is very low, but I worry sometimes. At 60 now I can feel my type 1 starting to sneak up on me too.

I can still shoot, but right handed instead of left handed.....

Again, best of luck to you.

Jon
 
@JEFFPPC

JUST turned 79, PSA in July was 7.7. Saw urologist & suggested a biopsy - cancer. PET scan indicated still contained in prostate, hasn't spread. Trying to read/research to decide which method. Tough since all options have possible negative side effects. I've been told after 75 urinary continence is tougher to get back and some never do. Surgeon says to decide by mid December. Don't look forward to diapers till expiration date. Soldier hasn't been at attention for a while so that side effect is inconsequential. Decisions, decisions........................
 
@JEFFPPC

JUST turned 79, PSA in July was 7.7. Saw urologist & suggested a biopsy - cancer. PET scan indicated still contained in prostate, hasn't spread. Trying to read/research to decide which method. Tough since all options have possible negative side effects. I've been told after 75 urinary continence is tougher to get back and some never do. Surgeon says to decide by mid December. Don't look forward to diapers till expiration date. Soldier hasn't been at attention for a while so that side effect is inconsequential. Decisions, decisions........................
If you opt for the Nuclear treatment may I suggest to also inquire about a gel pack that goes in between the rectum and the prostate as that helps shield the bowel from the beam.
I had that done at the same time as the gold locating needles were inserted, not inexpensive but… No good being the richest person in the bone yard.
No incontinence, ever… A bit of urinary discomfort towards the end of treatment, and post for another month. PSA has been .012 -.013 for 5 years, checked every month first 6 months then a year of every 3 months and now at least twice a year.
Here is a link:
 

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