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I have a confession to make

Im addicted to guns and shooting. My wife told me so.

My wife hit me broad side outta the blue, brought it to my attention, and told me I have a problem.

It went something like this:

"You dont need another god d*** gun! you have plenty! All you wanna do is spend time in your stupid gun room, doing stupid gun crap! And go shoot stupid competitions. Your so addicted, and always on those stupid forums."

and that was it... (note no conversation dialogue for me...there was none...) next day its like nothing happed.

yall that are married too cant tell me you've never had that kind of experience in the house! And they wonder why we like going to deer camp with the guys and hunting so much... lol

Several things have helped my cause:

1. I use shooting as a way to involve our teens and other friends and family in outdoor activities.
2. I've made an intentional plan to limit new acquisitions so that it is not necessary to buy more gun safes. Focused on rebuilds the last few years rather than new.
3. Take great care to schedule events so not to conflict with our teens' recreational activities, which all have a higher priority. I maintain a white board where all the possible activities are written down, so I can still attend 2-3 events a month. It takes juggling and planning.
4. Overall costs are moderate, especially when compared to what men of comparable income spend on their favored sports: fishing, golf, etc. Savages, Leupolds, and cost effective Rem 700 rebuilds have been important here.) Hornady and Sierra rather than Berger. Moving to cartridges less expensive to load and providing longer barrel life for more time between rebuilds.
5. Wife joins me once a month or so, and has won her share of events. She is progressing toward her specific classification goals, etc. She is very aware that my coaching and loading contributions are a big part of her tournament success.
6. Overall, I compare favorably with most of the other men she knows and sees everywhere from church to Walmart to her workplace and travel. I'm disciplined, fit, and not fighting with substance or porn addictions.
7. I spend a lot, lot less on clothes than she does.
8. She drives the newer, more reliable vehicle.
9. She does not want much, but she gets what she wants.
10. When I ramp up participation expenses and time in one hobby, I ramp down participation and expenses in other hobbies, and I divest from all the junk.
 
Good notes Berger.Fan222.

We just bought a house, have been renting since leaving the military. Last weekend we are packing boxes and she sees that I'm leaving out my ammo and my cleaning rod and she sympathetically says, "Oh it looks like someone is sad that he can't go shooting." I sadly nod. She says that I'm slowing her down anyway and I better go shooting for a little while. What a gal.

I haven't been informed what my payment for this is yet. During a future argument it will probably come up.
 
As much as we like to be dudes and gun slingers. If there is a problem with the spouse don't let it stew, with the significant other. Work it out, because if the significant other decided that it something that can't be resolve or someone decide to take a position of non negotiable. If she decided to leave she will take half of what you have including the guns. My 2 cents FWIW.
One of my buds came back from moose hunting to find out that his soon to be ex-wife and her attorney had laid out all of his guns, taken pics, and gotten costs on them. Took him a bunch of time to recover from that mistake.
 
I had a coworker that couldn't understand why his wife was leaving him. His home was filled with guns, fishing rods, and other hunting and fishing related parephernalia. A bass boat and duck hunting boat were there too. Nice new Dodge Ram 4x4 in the driveway. His wife was driving a junker and her clothes looked like they came from the second hand shop but what the heck, he was the breadwinner, she didn't work, just stayed home with a couple rugrats. Having said that, beware of the onset of the dreaded SIDS* or HIDS*. :eek:

*Shooting Induced Divorce Syndrome
*Hunting induced Divorce Syndrome.
 
I had a coworker that couldn't understand why his wife was leaving him. His home was filled with guns, fishing rods, and other hunting and fishing related parephernalia. A bass boat and duck hunting boat were there too. Nice new Dodge Ram 4x4 in the driveway. His wife was driving a junker and her clothes looked like they came from the second hand shop but what the heck, he was the breadwinner, she didn't work, just stayed home with a couple rugrats. Having said that, beware of the onset of the dreaded SIDS* or HIDS*. :eek:

*Shooting Induced Divorce Syndrome
*Hunting induced Divorce Syndrome.

Things are reversed in my household, but replace guns with shoes, fishing rods with clothes, and boats for furniture and whatever other stuff she wants in our house. Lol.
 
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Sounds like menopause to me. I went thru the same thing about 30 yrs ago, came home from work one day a bit late, she asked if traffic was bad or whatever. No problems at all. Next day, basically the same situation, but total he$$ broke loose, she making accusations on my whereabouts, etc. These mood swings continued for a while, one day something was ok, next time the same circumstances came about, nothing in this world was right.

I have a range buddy who says his wife gets the same amount of $$ that he spends on guns and related items. I don't have that policy, I like secrets. LOL. I have to figure out how I'm gonna get a 22lr silencer in the house (whenever it gets out of jail). I already have the Ruger 22/45 Lite in the house that she hasn't seen yet, or at least questioned what was in that "box over there" that I bought when I bought the silencer.

She complains about me spending time "piddling" in my reloading room at times, but if I sit in same room with her, she is FB or texting her sister/daughter, so I spend time in "my room". It's always a no win situation with women, you've lost before the battle begins because you never know what the fight is about. LOL.
the very last sentence is the truth. total truth. perfectly spoken(typed)
 
Guess I'm a lucky one, I still get the chewing out for no reason, but it's never about how many guns or the cost. She did mention selling the 9mm sig and getting a .380 for her purse. What a hoot, she's so funny sometimes. Now we have both, just the way it's suppose to be.
 
I'm so unlucky. I have to share 1 of my 550 Dillons and buy her powder, bullets and primers. If that isn't enough, every time we go to the range, I spend half my time trying to find her brass!

Course, I seem to be the envy of every guy on the line at the matches. The other guys, their girlfriends that turned into wives somehow quit going to the matches once they got the ring on their finger. . . . .

Guess it's not so bad after all.

No telling what I'll have to get into at Phoenix in Feb.
 
How about if you tell your wife your going to get a NEW gun, and she says,

"You going to sell your old one " !!!!!

Lonnie
I’ve had the same wife for 36 years and while she’s rarely ever complained about my gun/shooting hobby, she has (and will continue to) have “issues” about my (insert here: lack of attention, too much attention, lack of appreciation, leaving dishes on the table, leaving tools in “her way”, and on and on....o_O) on a regular and continuing basis. She can’t help it, I can live with that.
If she ever pronounced such an edict as quoted above...there would be problems. I had this “lifestyle” before I had her. She knew what she was getting.
 
Old Joke Husband and wife Christmas shopping.

A couple were in a busy shopping center just before Christmas. The wife suddenly noticed her husband was missing and as they had a lot to do, she called him on the cell phone. The wife said
"Where are you? You know we have lots to do". He said "You remember that jeweler's we went in to about ten years ago, and you fell in love with that diamond necklace? I could not afford it at the time and I said that one day I would get it for you"? Little tears started to flow down her cheeks and she
got all choked up. "Yes, I do remember that shop", she replied. He says "Well, I'm in the gun shop next door".
 
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.... He says "remember many years ago that jewelry store where you wanted that diamond necklace and we were too broke to buy it"? Teary eyed, she said " yes, I remember"....

That was the Mrs. and me. For both of us. I just had to wait much longer. While she had to wait a couple years to get a modest ring (she got a much bigger one years later), I had to wait until I was 49 to get my first new Anschutz sporter. And I’m making up for lost time.:p
 
Old joke. Wife and husband Christmas shopping separately in the mall. She calls him asking where he is. He says "remember many years ago that jewelry store where you wanted that diamond necklace and we were too broke to buy it"? Teary eyed, she said " yes, I remember". He replies, I'm in the gun shop next door to it".:D
Funny.. but since it is an "old joke".. were they using these?
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Trick is to get one that likes shooting as much as you do. I've had mine out there at 2am running the progressive so she could go to the range with me.
 
Well, reading this thread I realize that I might not be T.H.E. luckiest man in the world...but I really feel like I am in the top three!!!
This is a true story:
Wife goes to visit MIL in Florida. While there her mother takes her to a local gunshop in Ocala. Wife wants to get me a little something so she asks the guy and he {not wanting to miss this opportunity} promptly sells her a special Leatherman tool for AR-15's called a Mutt and it costs almost $200.00!!
Now I don't much care for AR's.
MIL cannot stand to be outdone, so she gets me a really nice case for an AR that was a little over $200.00. Wifey cannot have "another woman" {even if it is her own mother} outdo her in regards to her man, so she then buys me an M-4 with a "one of a kind" blue anodized upper and lower. MIL patiently waits until the very next Christmas and presents me with a Larue OBR new in the case with a Vortex scope, looks at her daughter and says, "top that!!!"
I encourage them to fight over me as often as I can!!!!!!!
 
Was talking to the wife in early spring. Said I was thinking of selling my FJ-40 to fund an F-class rifle. She said that isn't going to happen and wrote the check for my green mistress.
Does the mean she is contributing to my addiction?

With the wife our oldest daughter and her ankle biters, there are 8 gals in the house.....and me. Hell, they don't even know if I'm in the loading room or not. They are all talking at the same time carrying a half dozen conversations between them. Darndest thing I ever seen!
As excited as I am about the differences between the sexes, I admit, I do not have the faculties to understand women.
Butt, I've got a good one!
CW
 

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