Well....the end of the big mystery!!! This morning I called Night Force to inquire about anything I should check on this scope before I send it back to be checked. I told the guy in customer service that when I switched the scope the problem went away. He asked if I only switched the scope or if I moved the rings and bases too and also if I checked the tightness of the rings and bases. He then proceeded to tell me that the only rings and bases Night Force recommends are the mil-spec 1913 Picatinny rail type base and mil-spec rings to fit. He said that because the SHV is such a heavy scope that those type rings and base were the only ones that would stand up to the mass of the heavy scope under recoil.
Sure enough, this afternoon, when I tried the SHV on a different rifle with different/better rings and bases it held zero without any problem!!! This would explain why the rifle shot better with the muzzle brake installed...less recoil, less movement in the ring/base combo I was using. Incidentally, I was using the old Redfield type {new Leupold brand} with the two lateral windage screws on the rear base. The guy at Night Force said that without a doubt that type would never hold zero with this rifle scope combo, and he was right. i didn't select these by choice...they were the only type in stock at the gun store when I bought the rifle. The correct rings and bases should arrive in a few days.
One other thing I would like to mention...several of you fellas asked me about parallax. I did check, but did not have any with the rifle/scope that was giving me fits. I never really gave parallax much thought, never had it cause any problems. I was always aware of it and would check from time to time, but again never really had it show up. Well today I got a lesson in just how easy this was to have sneak up on you...one of my other rifles has the USMC PMII 3-12 scope. I noticed that the side focus was reading almost 200 meters when the range was 100 yards. Sure enough, when I moved my head side to side the reticle moved in relation to the target. Not until I set the side focus to just under 100 and then properly adjusted the diopter did the parallax disappear. Thanks again for all the tips and info fells...I am hopeful that this thread might help others as much as it has helped me.