I'm going to sand the shell holder and the die now and keep going until something changes I'm at the point where I couldn't care less whether i stuff my die or shellholder
If your shell holder isn't touching it while sizing now sanding it further won't get it any further in.
I would buy a box of shells, shoot them in your chamber for 100% certainty. If that doesn't shine any light then return the body die and get a full length of another flavor since you're not wanting to invest a whole lot yet. If that doesn't work return the whole thing.