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Conceal Carry Opinions for a "Small woman"

Not reading through 4 pages… I am sure it has already been said but….

Generally what is easy to shoot is hard to carry and what is easy to carry isn’t easy to shoot.

99% of CCW is producing it and getting it pointed in the correct direction with out shooting yourself.

Try A LOT of different pistols in the size you are willing to carry. Pick what you can carry easiest AND shoot reasonably good at 10 yards.

PRACTICE producing the pistol from your favorite carry rig UNLOADED.

When caught off guard, it‘s all muscle memory.

NO ONE is checking what caliber a pistol is when it’s pointed at them. NO ONE.

Find a coach who isn’t a raging butthead, male or female. Carrying is a very serious endeavor and anyone who treats it with a lot of bravado should be avoided.

Good luck and take care. :)
 
The ideal weapon for concealed carry is the one you are the most proficient with. Some very large and ornery critters have been "stopped" with the .22 LR round. A good solid hit in a vital area with a .22 is much better than a mis-placed shot with something else. Carry what you're comfortable and proficient with.
 
Well at one time I had 106 handguns then my eyesight changed and I'm down to 4. I've carried a lot of handguns in my life so far and to me a minimum caliber would be a 9mm with some good proven ammo. I bought a pair of Kahr CW's on this site for dirt cheap money and they are very compact, easy to carry and they are both the same exact size so I have my choice of carrying a 9 or a 45. My advice to you is to find people that your friends with that have handguns and try different ones. See which ones feel good in your hands and see which one you can hit the target with consistently. Your going to get a lot of opinions but in the end it's what feels good in your hands. One more thing you have to do. PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, so that it feels like an extension of your hand when your drawing it. In reality I guess it's better to have a 22 pistol than no pistol at all but it wouldn't be my first choice.
Great advice!!!
 
My wife is a petite gal. She had trouble racking the slide on most semi autos. She is able to rack the slide on a Beretta PX4 compact. This gun has a rotating barrel. I think that rotating barrel reduces recoil because that gun is the softest shooting 9mm I have ever shot. She can one hand it and shoot it well enough to be lethal. They are double/single, so you need to practice and get use to the first, double action shot. She has zero problem with the double action first shot. I pity the fool that thinks her petite size is an excuse to do something bad.

I wasn't familiar with that gun until she got it. I now own 2 of my own in 9mm. I also have a full size .45 version. They also eat any ammo you put in them.
 
Ok I carry and have been shooting for 50 years like alot of people on here , plus ex law enforcement.... If you think getting shot with a .22 is just going to piss someone off tell them to try it.... A .22 loaded with the correct ammo is deadly , it may not have the knock down power etc of a 9mm but if anybody thinks 2-3 .22 rounds in the chest or face is just going to be able to rub some dirt on it and walk it off is seriously WRONG.... It will require immediate medical attention and a bunch of follow up appointments to survive... In the end you will have your revenge even if your attacker wins....

I would carry whatever you are good with and would rather see you carry a smaller caliber you can get hits fast and use proper shot placement than carry a cannon you will be lucky to get a hit with in a critical situation were your heart will be pounding and tunnel vision at it's best....if you do change to a different pistol just remember the smaller and lighter it is the more recoil it will have so buying a tiny 9mm will be more than a full size... I carry a Glock 19 and my wife's small Glock 43 is absolutely surprisingly close to the same recoil and hits in the same place as the 19 which is a small pistol but not as small as the 43.... Both in 9mm... I actually really like the 43... It only hold 7 rounds but the mags are very small and easy to carry... That being said it means you will only have one less round than a 15 round gun like the 19 if you carry a spare mag and you should with any carry gun if not two spares in my opinion....

My wife shoots the 43 fine with no complaints.... Whatever you decide on you need many many hours of practice to be productive.... Plus 9mm is cheap and everywhere normally compared to .380 etc... I would definitely stay away from the small Ruger LCR revolvers , my wife had one and because of the light weight it kicked like a mule and .38 is expensive to practice with , I hated that gun and sold it and replaced it with the Glock 43 for her.... Plus I don't like small pocket pistols because I actually shoot and like that .38 I have wore them out in a year but I will say I practice with pistol ALOT because I carry it and need to be able to hit with it , usually around 5000-10000 rounds a year in pistol , rifle and Rimfire at least... After working at a gun range for the last five years I can assure you most people don't after seeing their targets , it's scary really to think their carrying a gun....

So in the end buy and carry what you can get positive shot placement the fastest you can... Plus something you can afford to practice with.... A tiny pistol is in my opinion never the best option.... You need it to be absolutely reliable also...I am a Glock guy , sure theirs prettier and there's pistols out there that can do things better but when it comes to reliability , putting bullets were I want them the Glock does everything I want and it does it well without a bunch of weight.... The Glock 19 would be my choice and is... Small enough to hide but big enough to go to war with if necessary.... If the 19 is to big they make small pistols all the way up to 10mm and that's big enough to stop about anything out there...

Glock 19
Glock 43
Glock 26

Would and are my choice and I have zero fear of fighting literally to the death with any if necessary.... Once again no matter what , proper shot placement and reliability are the key to a defense pistol even if you stick with your .22... I agree nobody ever said I wish I had a smaller gun in a gunfight but you can make someone leave you alone with a pellet rifle if you can pump it up fast enough...lol... Please try as many as you can before you buy to get exactly what you need maybe at a gun range where you can rent a few.....One more thing in my opinion don't carry or trust a new gun , any gun , until you have at least 200 rounds through it with zero problems.... also I carry and recommend anybody buy a small very bright tactical flashlight a 3 inch long light will be brighter than a large mag light and it fits in your pocket easily , you need to see what your shooting at , most attacks come in the dark and from behind... Keep your head up and on a swivel just knowing your surroundings is enough to make a criminal look for an easier target....Good luck out there..
Great post!
 
A lot of great advice here.
When my wife wanted to get a CC. I took her to a local sporting goods dealer with the largest selection of handguns. When she asked me what she should get I told her the one that feels the most comfortable in YOUR hands!!

I agree with the masses here that you should carry the gun that YOU are most comfortable with and can handle and shoot proficiently.

As I am not familiar with your bearcat, I would just point out with all the different makes and models everyone has suggested is that you also understand the differences in the operation of each one compared to what you carry now.

Does it have a Safety or Not?
Is it DA/SA.?
Is it SAO?
 
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A lot of great advice here.
When my wife wanted to get a CC. I took her to a local sporting goods dealer with the largest selection of handguns. When she asked me what she should get I told her the one that feels the most comfortable in YOUR hands!!
Absolutely the right way. My wife can't effectively handle most autos. Limp-wrists them too often and fails to cycle. Loves her Browning Buckmark , but just doesn't get along with larger calibers in autos. Wanting her to have a home gun that she trusted, I took her to a well-stocked shop and told her to pick what felt best. I also told the salesman no junk, maximum of 4" barrel and not to let her see the price tags in the process. Then I stood back and watched. It didn't take her long to lock onto a very gently used Smith and Wesson Model 64-8 (as in looked almost never fired) .38 Special. Took it back to the range for her to try it and she fell in love. I put a trigger kit in it and she can usually clean the rail of 5 clay pigeons in 6 seconds or less at 10 yards. I can't do much better than that with any of my .45 ACPs on a good day, and I've shot them for over 50 years.

Point is, like you I let her determine what worked best for her and it worked out perfectly.
 
I carry a Bodyguard every day. If I leave my property, it's in my pocket. My 365XL rides shotgun in my door pocket. My wife's pocketbook gun is a 642 Airweight.
 
So I have a lot of the different compact carry pistols available today. I’ll go over 4 of the most common ones out there getting all the fame and glory right now. With the exception of the Kimber R7 Mako because it’s so new, these all have an excellent backing of aftermarket accessories and upgrades. Something to keep in mind when making a selection because if you choose an oddball or less common pistol then find you don’t like something about it, you may not be able to make any changes due to lack of aftermarket parts.

The 4 pistols I personally own and will go over are the following (Top to bottom in the photo):

1: Springfield Hellcat - 9mm
2: Glock 43X - 9mm
3: Kimber R7 Mako - 9mm
4: Sig Sauer P365 SAS - 9mm

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They are all very small, very concealable, and can be quite accurate for their compact size. But there are pretty significant differences in how comfortable each one is to hold and fire as well as overall accuracy

The most comfortable of them all to hold and fire is by far the Glock 43X. This is due to the fact that the 43X has a full grip sized handle and does not rely on a magazine to act as a wobbly integral bottom portion of the grip. The Glock is slim and feels extremely solid in the hand since the entire grip is all frame. Couple that with the legendary Glock reliability and aftermarket 15 round double stack magazines and you can’t go wrong! Best part is that the Glock 43X 15 round mag doesn’t even require an extension so it is the same exact overall length as the standard 10 round single stack Mags.

The Springfield Hellcat is probably the second most comfortable to hold and shoot with extended magazines followed very closely tied in 3rd place by the Sig Sauer P365 and Kimber R7 Mako.

Now for accuracy:
They can all be quite accurate with specific types of ammo.

The Kimber R7 Mako is by far the most accurate of the bunch that I own. It shoots a few different types of ammo with amazing accuracy and still shoots even the cheapest ammo quite well. This is probably due to a good trigger, comfortable grip stance that tames recoil and of course the excellent machine work that Kimber is known for. In every test I’ve done so far with the 4 pistols, the Kimber is the most accurate with every type of ammo used in each gun. It is very forgiving and seems to shoot itself with extreme accuracy at close ranges of 5-7 yards. Different grip forms and hand pressures all seem to work well for accuracy with the Kimber. It will even impress at distances of 10-20 yards where with certain ammo it will actually shoot as well as many high quality full frame pistols.

The second most accurate is the Sig Sauer P365. It shoots everything pretty good and is very accurate with some of the higher power +P loads. The Sig has an excellent trigger that aids in accuracy at longer distances of 10-20 yards.

The Glock 43X is plenty accurate with most types of ammo you throw at it and is nipping on the heels of the P365. The Sig will edge out the Glock on the Target with just about everything but they are close enough that either one would be an excellent choice that you could count on for reliable accuracy in a self defense situation. The Glock seems to throw a couple rounds off in la-la land in every 10 shot string since it is much more sensitive to hand grip pressure points than the Sig and Kimber. You have to “think” about your grip and pressures when shooting the Glock to maintain accuracy where the Sig not so much and the Kimber you can pretty much shoot however you want and expect good results on the target.

The Springfield Hellcat seems to be the pickiest of the bunch. It shoots well enough, but nothing that great. While accuracy is acceptable at 5-7 yards where most self defense situations may occur, as you step out to 10-15 yards it’s accuracy becomes kind of disappointing. It also has the worst trigger of the 4 pistols. I’ve tried different grips and applying different pressure in various places but just can’t get it to shoot nearly as accurate as the other 3 pistols.

If concerned with recoil in a compact 9mm, stick with the lighter bullets at lower velocities and recoil is easily manageable for most anyone. I personally prefer some of the fast hard hitting +P 9mm loads with 115gr bullets because they are very accurate but they really make these small pistols jump sharp and hard in the hand. Not exactly what I would call comfortable to shoot but due to the high levels of accuracy the +P ammo delivers for me that is my choice.

So that’s my couple cents. Hope this gives some good insight on some of the more common compact carry guns out there. Head to a store that stocks all these pistols and see what fits you best. While the Hellcat is very comfortable and shoots with perfect reliability, it’s gritty trigger and lesser levels of accuracy put it in last place on my list. The Kimber, Glock, and Sig would all be excellent choices for overall performance in comfortability, dependability and accuracy
 
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It took me a while to come around to Glock’s. Now I wouldn’t trade my G19 for anything else. I need to try out a 43 sometime.
I like my Colt 1911s but the capacity of the Glock 41 drew me into buying one. It’s very accurate and easy to shoot. I hate to openly admit it but if I had to grab a gun for a “situation “, I’d grab the Glock. Who can argue with the benefits of 13 round mag capacity?
I bought the 35 in 40 S&W because of the performance of the 41. Another good gun, so I just picked up a 43x to try. It’s small and takes a little getting used to but so far, so good.
 
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Another must with a carry pistol is night sights since that’s when most criminals usually operate.

Reflex red/green dot sights are awesome but have that element possible failure so if that’s the route you take make sure you buy a good reputable and reliable sight.

Tritium irons are great since they don’t require recharging in the light to glow brightly in the dark. Problem with tritium is in the waning light periods where it’s tough to see sights and not quite dark enough for tritium to glow brightly yet.

Tritium irons fed by fiber optics is by far the best as they glow just as brightly in the day time as they do at night so you always have super bright clear sights to line up in any lighting situation.

Glock factory sights leave a lot to be desired but there is a ton of aftermarket tritium and fiber fed tritium sights available.

The Kimber R7 Mako comes fitted with front and rear tritium sights which is pretty impressive for its price point. Great at night but just another normal iron during the day.

The Sig Sauer P365 SAS model comes with fiber optic fed tritium sights. If you like irons, you’ll never go back to anything else once you’ve used fiber fed tritium. They are so bright and easy to line up in all lighting
 
Personal size only matters for how your carrying it.

I had corpal tunnel surgery on both wrists.
Even 2 months later i couldn't shoot any pistol and stand it.

Carry what you can shoot accurately, and will actually carry!
 
Another must with a carry pistol is night sights since that’s when most criminals usually operate.

Reflex red/green dot sights are awesome but have that element possible failure so if that’s the route you take make sure you buy a good reputable and reliable sight.

Tritium irons are great since they don’t require recharging in the light to glow brightly in the dark. Problem with tritium is in the waning light periods where it’s tough to see sights and not quite dark enough for tritium to glow brightly yet.

Tritium irons fed by fiber optics is by far the best as they glow just as brightly in the day time as they do at night so you always have super bright clear sights to line up in any lighting situation.

Glock factory sights leave a lot to be desired but there is a ton of aftermarket tritium and fiber fed tritium sights available.

The Kimber R7 Mako comes fitted with front and rear tritium sights which is pretty impressive for its price point. Great at night but just another normal iron during the day.

The Sig Sauer P365 SAS model comes with fiber optic fed tritium sights. If you like irons, you’ll never go back to anything else once you’ve used fiber fed tritium. They are so bright and easy to line up in all lighting
Ok! On your recommendation I just ordered some optic Fed tritium sites for my Glock. Thanks!
 
My wife carries a Sig 938, I have a few smaller 9mms, nothing I’d consider compact, I carry a Glock 19 and a CZ P-10c. Both have aftermarket sights and triggers. The wife’s pistol is stock. Over the last year or so the wife has gotten in the practice of shooting her 938 at least once a month, thats something she didn’t do enough of early on when she started carrying. Her proficiency with her firearms has improved leaps and bounds, shes shoots it better, has faster reload times and operates it like she knows it. I think that’s biggest issue I see with handguns or any firearm we use for self defense, which is not shooting them enough, confidence in operation and hitting where we want to comes with practice. I try and shoot more myself, I’m am guilty of long periods of times not shooting the firearms I carry for self defense. I do better now that I have a plate rack in my back yard, makes it a lot easier to practice.
 

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