You may look at the P365 from Sig. Its available in .380 and 9mm. If you can handle 9mm, I would recommend it over .380.
I agree with both of the above.Smith and wesson shield ez is a good choice. Ill keep carrying my bobcat 22 though. Ill take my chances on pissing someone off with it
As for the 22, it’s a LOT better than nothing