Pick up a textbook sometime. It's called recovery annealing. I'm sure you remember the 3 phases of annealing from your intro to materials class. Or not as the case appears to beThe candle method cannot get hot enough to anneal. It may stress relieve if your lucky.
If you don't like the article you can go take it up with the author directly over on 24hr campfire. John is a regular contributor there. I didn't know what the experience level of the young man being discussed in the OP was when I linked the article and assumed an easy to read general audience article on annealing might be helpful to him.