Seems clear enough that GRIP is the bottom line. Mechanical press-fit and co-efficient of friction. Condition of the internal neck lubricity: bare metal, carbon, etc. breakaway force influencing pressure rate of rise, initial harmonic timing, etcFor a given case neck grip on a given bullet, I don't think it matters if your push the bullet out from the back with a pin through a hole in the case head or pull the bullet out with a bullet puller. The same force to move the bullet will be needed.
Mount a shell holder upside down above a hole in something clamped to bench top so it's past the edge. Slide a case in it then put a collet type bullet puller tight on the bullet. Affix a tin can to the bullet puller then slowly but incrementally load it with bullets. When the bullet gets pulled out of the case, weigh everything whose weight did that.
One could use a hand scale affixed to the bullet puller and get numbers good enough to make comparisons