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You’re a good friend.A short post script:
Today while at work, in the midst of a mild crisis I was walking across a parking lot when "out of the blue" a thought (more like a gentle whisper) landed in my mind. It was simply a sense that I would be doing Bud's funeral and that I needed to ask about family dynamics when I prepared remarks.
Two hours later Bud's daughter called me.
She said "I have a question to ask you...will you do Dad's funeral for me? She immediately followed with a confession that "things have been tough and I don't want to overwhelm you but...(and I interrupted her and said "family dynamics have been hard". She started bawling.
Suffice it to say that things were indeed hard and Bud's last years had brought a lot of challenges to the family and she just needed help. Bud, being a private man, and always positive, had not shared any of this, because I hardly ever remember him talking bad about anyone (except bad cops and all politicians!).
I never really knew his daughter well, but she apparently knew of me through her dad, and so my wife and I are going to Dryden NY this weekend, where I will honor my friendship with Bud by honoring him and his family by doing the funeral service. My twin daughters will represent our children who all learned to shoot in "Mr. Bud's lawn".
I guess it is time for this old cop to re-enter the pulpit. Pray for me that I can bring God's word in a healing way.
God is good. Thank you all for praying.
Snert
You’ll do a good job Snert! You’ll have help, it’s easy to see your faith and where your heart is. You’ll do him right and maybe it will help you through the grieving process too. God bless you!A short post script:
Today while at work, in the midst of a mild crisis I was walking across a parking lot when "out of the blue" a thought (more like a gentle whisper) landed in my mind. It was simply a sense that I would be doing Bud's funeral and that I needed to ask about family dynamics when I prepared remarks.
Two hours later Bud's daughter called me.
She said "I have a question to ask you...will you do Dad's funeral for me? She immediately followed with a confession that "things have been tough and I don't want to overwhelm you but...(and I interrupted her and said "family dynamics have been hard". She started bawling.
Suffice it to say that things were indeed hard and Bud's last years had brought a lot of challenges to the family and she just needed help. Bud, being a private man, and always positive, had not shared any of this, because I hardly ever remember him talking bad about anyone (except bad cops and all politicians!).
I never really knew his daughter well, but she apparently knew of me through her dad, and so my wife and I are going to Dryden NY this weekend, where I will honor my friendship with Bud by honoring him and his family by doing the funeral service. My twin daughters will represent our children who all learned to shoot in "Mr. Bud's lawn".
I guess it is time for this old cop to re-enter the pulpit. Pray for me that I can bring God's word in a healing way.
God is good. Thank you all for praying.
Snert
You will do a great job, Bud will be there with you.I guess it is time for this old cop to re-enter the pulpit. Pray for me that I can bring God's word in a healing way.
Snert