I find bench rest/target shooting tedious and boring, however the techniques are many times useful, when followed incrementally they always lead to a point where effort verses return on that effort converge and then separate.I agree with you on "not the rifle, it's the reloader" that's the problem. The reloader also needs to account for the condition of his rifle. What I said sounded more like a blanket statement against old rifles. Not true. I reload for a bunch of Mausers, Mosin's, and 1880's-1890's rifles. One of the things about a Mauser 98 model (of many kinds) is they have a gas escape path that modern rifles don't duplicate. A nice feature, but one shouldn't be tempted to use it.
As that pertains to this thread, one reason I try for the lowest accuracy node possible is for that reason with both modern and old. I find I'm never pushing the brass to a point of failure and am able to inspect it well enough that I can find issues on the reload bench instead of on the shooting bench. I load for brass fitting and not moving. I'm typically one to two grains below what my shooting partner uses in approximately the same bullet
I could list dozens of little things that help a rifle and load shoot better that are safe, simple and really return results that came from the bench game. Then more that have near zero effect on hits on target in the field but are talked about just as much. Field shooting is a different situation, I'm sure I'm not the best but I've been successful at ranges starting at the end of my arm to just over 1,500 yards.
Unless you don't know how to set your dies properly I would not list full length sizing verses neck sizing on the real gain column either way you size them.
If I have issues with mixing my loads with the same caliber rifles I figure I'll need my butt kicked, it's never happened in over 5 decades.
I do think that neck sizing seems to extend the life of brass which is why I do it. Hammering 6MM Remington cases with 65,000 PSI max loads, (many pieces in excess of 20 times some maybe 30 times) over the last 30 years has convinced me of that. The load pushes a 75 grain VMAX at 3,900 FPS, prints regulary 1 1/16" at 300 yards if I don't have too much coffee. On dozens of occasions on the same range visit it has printed multiple 300 yard groups I could cover with a dime, when I don't have loads of stress or have too much coffee and do my part. I do heat test all my loads in excess of the temperature they will be shot at so there are no surprises.
This combo has wacked crows out to 600 yards, on more than 1 occasion, I only count 1 shot 1 kill. So I find the discussion on neck or full length sizing less than enlightening .
With that said I do find the nonchalant nature of the over pressure loads, enlightening and not in a good way.