I'm sure there are guys who can seat by feel and get consistent seating. But seating by feel is ambiguous and can be difficult to learn unless you have a mentor to teach you that kind of stuff and what to look for.
I'm a systems engineer, and it's in my nature to prefer data and repeatable, measurable methods without relying on the human factor. Even if I knew how to seat by feel, my brain would never allow me to be confident that they are all the same. However, when I uniform the pocket, take a measurement, seat primer, take a measurement...I'm 100% confident with the result. It's peace of mind for me. That doesn't make other methods wrong, just different ways to accomplish the same thing.
With that said, people just need to do what works for them and enjoy the hobby. Reloading can be both an art and a science.