Agree with the Red-N-Tacky, but 60# works for me.Lucas Red-n-Tacky, or really any good grease, moly or lithium based, to about 75lb/ft.
I used white anti-seize for a long time. Never a problem from any lube I've used in this application. I did like the white, as it is a lot less messy than aluminum anti-seize, fwiw.