Blondes and redheads....good analogy. With beaucoup choices out there, and having much experience with this very question myself, all three of my 17HMR's wear Leupold VX2 4-12x40mm's with AO with their excellent LRV or "Long Range Varmint" reticle, which is a fine duplex with two lower hashmarks for extended range. Mine is dialed at the main crosshair intersection at 100 yds, and the other two give me aiming points at 175 and 250 yards. Not expensive, and great optics for any 17HMR
This one is on my Anschutz 1517HB, and is quite effective on rockchucks out to 200 yds as long as head shots are taken:
I long ago gave up on "budget" scopes, and now my safe is full of Leupold-scoped rifles. The ability to service/modify any of their scopes right here in the USA (Portland, OR) is also a huge bonus. And at the end of the day, no headaches whatever (even with a 1" tube; not sure how that should make any difference, as I've got lots of 30mm tubed scopes too, and that has never entered into the equation).
This particular scope is a cataloged item, so it has good availability.