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Wanted to share a story.

I don't know if any of you have had to deal with Alzheimer's, but it is a terrible disease. My mom was sharp as a tack, ballenced books for a living. Strong too. My dad was terminal with emphasize when I was I HS. My mom took care of him, sent 2 of us to Catholic school and battled breast cancer all at once. But she was no match for Alzheimer's. Little by little it took her memory away. Some days she would have trouble even with our names. Now here is why I posted this here. He memory of everything except John & his shooting. Every week we would go see her. First in her appointment, then in the nursing home. If we missed for a match she would want to know how he did. She couldn't tell you what she had for breakfast, but how did John do. It was the strangest thing. Up untill Aug. of this year it was always her 1st question. She wasn't able to talk in Sept. as the disease took that too, but John would take his ribbons to show her and she would smile. I know she understood that John was doing good, & even if that's all she understood it made her happy. She passed the end of Sept.

I shared this because my mom didn't know one end of a gun from the other, but she would listen & remember what John would teach her. She would remember if we missed a visit, but always ask how did John do. Alzheimer's took most of my mom away, but rifle with John let us hold on to her to the end. What a gift was that.20170408_161528.jpg
 
I am going through it with my grandmother , I am 50 and she only remembers me as a small child even though she raised me... She thinks now I am my dad etc... Her memory is all but gone now...It's a horrible thing for sure....
 
My son taught her about groupings, bull vs 10s, what his different guns were. What matches he had comming up. He went to Phoenix for Navy JROTC air rifle last year, she asked if he saw any catcus. It was like the disease took over he brain but she faught to keep that 1 little space that linked her to John. A woman who never held a gun used rifles to cling to the memories she had & the connection to her grandson.
 

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