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Update on John and Navy Nationals

My original post was getting a bit ugly so I decided a new post instead of a follow up there.

I did it. I called a spade a spade to the principle and superintendent, as well as Gunner. I explained what happened, the attempt to cover it, and about placing the kids in the middle. I backed it up with redacted text messages, (I took the names out so the kids weren't called out.) So basically I started a sh! + storm. That got the ball rolling and some unexpected results.

On day 2 of heavy perception Gunner set the team down. He explained that what he did was wrong. He never intended for the targets in question to be sent with the other targets and scored. He saw it as more practice in a "pressure" situation for the other members in their weakest position. It shouldn't have counted, and in hind sight he shouldn't have done it. When the scores posted and he saw the targets were sent it put him on the defensive. Over the Thanksgiving break he kept thinking about it and felt that score couldn't be counted. Going by the scores self reported by New Albany's coach, (Master Guns and Gunner are friends) he thought our team lost by 1 pt. However when the official scores came out and he removed the target in question, John's team still won by one point. Gunner took responsibility for telling everyone to lie about why they weren't going, and stated this won't happen again.

So as it stands today John and his team are going to Navy Nationals. I told John not to hold his breath as a lot of time left till they go, but at least they qualified. I think if gunner balked about going enough crap fell he would be held accountable, but I just have a sneaky suspicion. Call it a moms intuition. If that happens I think I ask the superintendent to let New Albany take him, and I'll go as his cheparone. I look at that if it happens.

So as of today good won. John wasn't singled out for refusing to lie, and hopefully he can just work on shooting.

Thanks guys. Sometimes I'm just unsure if I should let the manure rain down, or fall in line. You all help by being my measuring stick.

Thanks Paula.
 
I wouldn't go that far. I just trying to raise a kid and help him reach his potential. In truth, I'm just being a mom.

With a wife in education, and owning a small service business for over 30 years, that has has hired and fired its share of people, I don’t think you understand how truly special that simple idea makes you.

The fact that you don’t see it that way, simply confirms that you truly are a mom, among those who have mothered children.

John is a special kid, for no other reason than he has a special mom. Thanks for sharing a bit of that special relationship. I for one look forward to your posts for a bit of joy in my day.

Keep up the good work, mom.
 
Paula,
You are my hero!
You are John's hero also as you have proven to the young man that his mom is more than willing to step into the line of fire to protect her son. This probably ranks highest on the lessons taught to John in his life and will remain at the top of that list forever.

$hitstorms can be a good thing if started for a good reason. You hit the Gunner right between the eyes and hopefully set him back on the high road for the rest of his career and life.

No matter the outcome of the Nationals, this is a win for John... a huge life lesson for John.

ALWAYS TAKE THE HIGH ROAD!
 
You all are making me blush. Truly I think I've had it easy raising a son. I hear of other parents who's kids are just terrors and I thank my lucky stars. John has always been easy. He has a fireball of a temper, but if you weather the storm he'll comeback an admit the truth. He witnessed the accident that almost cost me my life when my ATV snapped my leg. He has gone through all the surgeries and the infection that put me in ICU. I hated that he saw it happen, but I think it's why he has grown up like he is. He learned early that he had to help me, even with simple stuff. That naturally lent to him opening doors and helping others. I can sit in a chair and watch him shoot. I can tell when his trigger control is off, or his position is wrong. So maybe my helping him is payback for all he has done for me. He knows what ever happens in life his mom has his back.
 
Fantastic outcome and a great lesson for your son. I am sure that it was hard to open that conversation, but in the end, it was the right thing to do.
Your actions and that of your son's refusing to lie, speaks volumes of yours and his character.
No doubt he will be a credit to the service some day.
 
You're doing it right , and let no one tell you otherwise . Having raised five sons , three of which were / are high level athletes , I fully empathize with the quandary you were facing . You are raising a class act of a young man . Drive On , Mom . Drive On !
 

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