My wife and I have a limit of $500 dollars that we don’t have to talk about it with each other first. If it’s over $500 we have to talk to each other about to first. At times she will tell me we need to cut to back to say $200 or whatever. I buy reloading stuff and she buys whatever and we never say anything other than what is that. I think the most I have spent without telling my wife since we started that was like $200. It’s nice to be in the financial state we can actually do that. When I was still AD Air Force most times every penny was needed to make it.