The thing is; seating force is so heavily tied to seating friction as to be near meaningless to neck tension (which is what matters). The only condition in which a correlation between seating force and neck tension can be seen(clearly) is when seating friction is absolutely normalized.
This is where variances in lubes, and frictional changes with frequent annealing, etc., mess up the measure.
At least understand that seating friction (aka pull force), in itself, holds no internal ballistic significance whatsoever. You could test it and see for yourself what newbieshooter pictured.
And know also that we do not currently have a method to measure actual neck tension (which really is significant).
It's important to objectively think about this when considering sorting by seating friction.
Could be the very worst thing to do.
I use an instrumented mandrel die with a built in transducer feeding a meter(it's an electronic system).
Mandrel expansion is my 'Pre-seating' operation, which I always do, and measuring at this stage affords me the ability to affect the outcome(change neck tension to match).
I have confidence in my correlation [force to tension] because I control all matters of friction moreso than most reloaders. This took efforts on my part(decades of direct experience) to learn what works and doesn't work, and I suspect that you're at an early stage here.
So I would NOT recommend sorting by your seating forces -YET.
I WOULD recommend managing cases at same sizing cycles.
When the first primer pocket loosens, the majority should just the same, rake them into a trash can and begin with a new batch prepped and ready for this.
As far as managing same neck tension, minimally sizing helps the most. Annealing helps,, provided your load likes lower neck tension. If your load likes higher tension, and you want it consistent, then you're back to minimal sizing. The only way around that is to go small underbore cartridge, running extreme pressure loads, with bullets jammed or necks sized beyond seated bullet bearing (to raise starting pressure).