The OP hasn't replied yet to the question, but if it is a Forster seater, there may be a gotcha.
There is a spring in the die that the die chamber rides against.
I found that I was getting the same big variation in seating depth because my die was incorrectly setup. The spring was not compressed enough, and seating was happening against die chamber contact, not stem contact. The spring pressure is probably constant, but a small variance in neck tension can result in seating depth variation if seating is happening without the spring fully compressed.
Set the die to take up the slack in the spring, and the seating depth should be constant.
If you setup exactly according to the instructions it should work properly.
There is a spring in the die that the die chamber rides against.
I found that I was getting the same big variation in seating depth because my die was incorrectly setup. The spring was not compressed enough, and seating was happening against die chamber contact, not stem contact. The spring pressure is probably constant, but a small variance in neck tension can result in seating depth variation if seating is happening without the spring fully compressed.
Set the die to take up the slack in the spring, and the seating depth should be constant.
If you setup exactly according to the instructions it should work properly.