Here's an informative perspective from
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http://kmshooting.com/primer-gauge.html
The 21st Century tool should allow similar seating. I'm not sure where feel comes into this, having never seated a primer this way.
"Just to review the terminology, you can uniform primer pocket depth, uniform a primer pocket profile, and uniform the primer pocket vent (flash hole). In the common vernacular, only the first one is normally called primer pocket uniforming. The second is usually called primer pocket reaming or swaging, while the third is usually referred to as flash hole reaming. A fourth thing often done is flash hole deburring on the inside of the case, but that's on the other side of the web from the primer pocket.
Primer pocket depth uniforming is done with an end cutting tool that removes brass from the floor of the primer pocket around the vent. It doesn't cut the sides of the pocket or remove crimps. All it is concerned with is making the pockets uniformly deep. For the service rifles that is, indeed, creating a safety margin against slamfires.
For benchrest, primer pocket depth is uniformed on the theory that it makes the firing pin strikes more uniform, which does affect speed of ignition. Outside of benchrest, one is hard put to see the difference a few thousandths of pin strike depth makes.
Much more important for accuracy is that you be able to set the bridge in the primer. The bridge is the thickness of priming mix between the tip of the primer's anvil (that little inverted tripod you see looking at the business end of a primer) and the inside bottom of the primer cup. Federal says, first seat the primer until you just feel the anvil legs touch the bottom of the pocket. Then, for large primers the cup should be pressed in 0.003" deeper to correctly set the bridge. For small primers it is 0.002" deeper.
Setting the bridge to that specification will insure rapid ignition that is uniform shot to shot. Without it, ignition delays of tens of milliseconds can sometimes occur, and that's enough to let movement from trigger pressing, muscle contractions on the stock, and firing pin strike vibration to move the muzzle further off target before the bullet exits.
If you uniform your primer pocket depths, you set up a situation in which just one standard measurement tells you whether or not you have correctly set the bridge. Typically, primer touchdown occurs when the primer is about flush to 0.002" below flush with the outside bottom of the casehead. So, a correctly set bridge will have the primer 0.003-0.005" below flush. You can measure this with a depth mic or the depth probe on a caliper.
If you uniform your primer pockets, 0.005" is what you should strive for, while unmodified cases should average 0.004", which is what the primer seating tool built into the Forster Co-ax press produces. It's the only primer seating tool I know of that fixes primer depth. K&M also produces a tool that lets you feel touchdown, then has a dial indicator that lets you see how much further you are pushing the primer in to set the bridge. Slow going, but it makes uniforming primer pocket depth unnecessary if you have a bolt gun that isn't benchrest accurate."