So, even seating .030" from the lands you still experience chambering difficulty. Well, I guess that rules out bullet seating which surprises me because if I read your posts correctly, the only time you experience problems is with a bullet in the case. Is that right? Is so that kind of rules out sizing.I sorted all the bullets from a 500 box by BBTO. (All these rounds were loaded from the same BBTO lot.) I seat by measuring CBTO. I measured touch using the Wheeler method as 2.200". All using the same comparator. I've shot a lot of the 300 rounds so far (excl today) at or very near touch. With these rounds even 30 thou deeper doesn't resolve the issue.
That leave an issue with the rifle chamber or something with the bullet. You said you checked the chamber and all looks fine. Maybe try another bullet and see what happens.