Back in the day, the term was used, and I believe originated by benchrest competitors and later used and corrupted by those who did not understand the original meaning. For this reason it is best not to assume that a reader knows what you mean whey you use the word, and elaborate in some detail what is meant.
The old school, and to me correct usage is as a noun, not a verb. It is a specific loaded length, that with the neck tension that the load will be shot with, is the longest that a bullet may be seated in that particular barrel, without being pushed into the case as the round is chambered.
This dimension is determined by seating a bullet long enough so that it will be pushed back, chambering a dummy, or if at the range, at the firing line, loaded round. Usually I record the seater setting that I loaded the intentionally loaded the long round, measure the long round, chamber it, remeasure it, subtract that measurement from the original and adjust the seater accordingly. If I want to be say .006 shorter than jam, I add that amount to the setback from chambering the test round, adjust my seater to produce that length, seat the bullet of my test round, verify that is measures what I want it to, and then record the seater setting. With an arbor press seater, with a non-micrometer top, it is the combined length of the seater's stem and cap.
The tricky part of using jam as a starting place is when you want to seat your bullets shorter than it would take to touch the rifling. For this reason its usefulness is greatest when seating some distance into the lands.
The difference in loaded round lenght between just touching the rifling and jam, depends on the shape of the bullet's ogive, the leade angle, and wear. Because of this, it changes over time.
One should also be aware that recent use of the word, has changed it to a verb, as in I jammed my bullets. This use is very imprecise and usually tells the reader little that is useful other than that the bullet was seated to a length longer than it would take to just touch the rifling. Shooters who talk about being "jammed" some large amount may not have even checked to see if their bullets have been set back in their cases as the rounds were chambered. For this and a number of reasons, I stick to the older, and to my view more correct use and definition.