Perspective on Life -- what really counts

[EOD Rob]

Froggy,
Self reflection is one of the hardest things for a human to do! It is not in our nature. I learned this at a very young age and have tried to live my life with that always in the back of my mine. Unfortunately, it take most of us to have a life changing lessen or experience to open our eyes to it. I was not different. Guess that's just God's way of waking us up. I will say, ever since those days, I've always seen life in a different light.

2005, 2006, ,2009, 2010, 2011, 2013, 2014

 

[timeout]

Nine months ago, my 15 year old son took his life in front of me as I was pleading with him not to. He was my one and only son and we did everything together that a regular father and son would do. Depression, isolation and social media got to him.

These days, I look at what people grips about and it truly shows me they do not have a true understanding of what is precious and valuable in life. Money doesn't matter beyond covering the basics. Material items don't matter. When you lose your loved ones, you lose a part of you.

My heart goes out to you. Many things on this earth happen that we cannot understand. You have suffered about the most terrible thing I could possibly imagine. I don't know where you are located, but if I can help in any way, I will. I am not a college educated counselor, but I do have training and experience in the Stephen Ministry.

 

[joshb]

Nine months ago, my 15 year old son took his life in front of me as I was pleading with him not to. He was my one and only son and we did everything together that a regular father and son would do. Depression, isolation and social media got to him.

These days, I look at what people grips about and it truly shows me they do not have a true understanding of what is precious and valuable in life. Money doesn't matter beyond covering the basics. Material items don't matter. When you lose your loved ones, you lose a part of you.

I lost a son too. He and his wife were hit by a tractor trailer and wiped off the face of this earth. I know a part of your pain. Getting up every morning and just putting your feet on the ground is an effort. I’m sorry for your loss. Keep fighting! You are on this earth for a purpose. Try to find your purpose and focus on that. The hole that is there will consume you if you let it. Don’t let it! PM me if you want to talk. I’m here for you if you need me.
Josh

 

[CharlieNC]

Best wishes to all you guys who have and are suffering, no one is immune. A lucky person learns what (who) is important and to appreciate it sooner rather than later.

 

[M-61]

I read joshb and vonb's posts.
I lack any words......

 

[joshb]

I read joshb and vonb's posts.
I lack any words......

There are no words, really. Don’t fret about it. Hug your kids every chance you get. Enjoy every minute you get with them like there is no tomorrow. Sometimes, there isn’t.

 

[Kermit in Va.]

I've never had much material things, was raised in church
and know the LORD. I've tried to raise my family the same way.
But, I can tell you 1 thing, the LORD has never let me down I've
let HIM down many times. HE has always seen a way to get through things that looked like there was no way to get through. I can't understand how people get by without HIM.

 

[joshb]

A lot of folks at Church said ”How could He let this happen?”Believe me, I know the answer.

 

[Kermit in Va.]

Yep, it's all in black and white I've read the last page

 

[Murray Brook]

In the late 50's- early 60's my family and I was having a tough time. I prayed every night and must admit that for a number of years I felt abandoned. That none of my prayers were listened to or answered. That is till I read the passage concerning " foot prints in the sand" .It was then that I realized that I wouldn't have made it if He wasn't carrying me. To all of you who feel that you may have been abandoned, look down those foot prints are His. He is carrying you and will as long as you need Him.

 

[Bill Norris]

AMEN.

 

[338 dude]

Nine months ago, my 15 year old son took his life in front of me as I was pleading with him not to. He was my one and only son and we did everything together that a regular father and son would do. Depression, isolation and social media got to him.

These days, I look at what people grips about and it truly shows me they do not have a true understanding of what is precious and valuable in life. Money doesn't matter beyond covering the basics. Material items don't matter. When you lose your loved ones, you lose a part of you.

Wow I really don’t know what to say but I want so badly to say something all I can come up with is know that Jesus loves you so do I and many other members here.

 

[jackson1]

froggy glad to hear you are on the road to recovery. Will continue to pray for your full recovery

vonb, it deeply saddens me to hear your story. Wish I had words of comfort, but don't. Will remember you and your family in prayer.

 

[EOD Rob]

Nine months ago, my 15 year old son took his life in front of me as I was pleading with him not to. He was my one and only son and we did everything together that a regular father and son would do. Depression, isolation and social media got to him.

These days, I look at what people grips about and it truly shows me they do not have a true understanding of what is precious and valuable in life. Money doesn't matter beyond covering the basics. Material items don't matter. When you lose your loved ones, you lose a part of you.

As we have talked before vonb, I feel your pain! I could never compare to the lose of your son and would never wish that on my worst enemy, but I can relate! Just keep that old 183 in your mind my friend!!!

Rob

 

[joshb]

A lot of people here have dealt with death. I’m not holding myself out as special. There are guys here that lived thru Vietnam and lost friends. Most everybody here has buried a parent or both. It sucks. With Covid, even the Boss has lost a friend. We go on. We deal with it and we move forward as best as we can. All I can do is offer support and condolences to those that need it. Best wishes to all!

 

[Dgd6mm]

I'm at a loss for words, God Bless everyone, I'll be praying for you all.

 

[Dub]

Over the last month and especially the last 7 days I've had some time to reflect on what is important in life. Fuming over primer/powder/bullet/brass shortages are certainly not at the top of the list (mine anyway). If you have read my last post you know what I have been going through and I will tell you right up front Faith, Family and Friends and how you live your life is what will count.

Take a break sit back and think about what is actually going on I'm sure most will see things differently. At least those of us that are older and have or are going through some of lifes set backs certainly do. Just my thoughts.


Thanks for title change.

you have been through a lot. I have not yet, but no doubt will have to one day. You have my prayers and respect

 

[PatMiles]

But hey life goes on, hopefully.

 

[Bill Norris]

It is very humbling to read these post. Sometimes we just don't find the words to speak or type. Sickness and death comes to every man's door at some point in time and we all know this but it is hard to deal with when it hits home or our friends and neighbors that we care about. I'm no saint or preacher but all I can say is we all need to be as ready as possible spiritually because in those times the only comfort is in our Lord Jesus Christ. I have experienced it many times with sickness and the loss of loved ones and it is the only peace I could find.

 

[EOD Rob]

It is very humbling to read these post. Sometimes we just don't find the words to speak or type. Sickness and death comes to every man's door at some point in time and we all know this but it is hard to deal with when it hits home or our friends and neighbors that we care about. I'm no saint or preacher but all I can say is we all need to be as ready as possible spiritually because in those times the only comfort is in our Lord Jesus Christ. I have experienced it many times with sickness and the loss of loved ones and it is the only peace I could find.

Well said Bill!