Thanks for the second case picture.
Here's my take on this.
Extension cracked from bolt failure, likely while locked in.
OOB would have done all the damage you had, but bolt would have been blown back. HARD.
Cracked extension indicates (to me) a locked in bolt.
Firing on trigger pull also indicates a locked in bolt.
A cracked bolt head from previous firing could have created a very weak lockup. Bolts do fail.
I think we can eliminate OOB.
Now, on to excessive pressure.
Ejector hole was filled by the brass. That's a lot of pressure. I'm sure that has happened before, I've just never seen that much.
Sometimes I get a few thousandths and have to face off the base a little. To blow that much brass from the base (not thin) into the ejector hole is pressure. Someone give me another reason.
Gas pressure would be much higher with a high pressure discharge, pulling on the case rim with the case locked into the chamber, pulling off the rim, weakened the case base allowing the blowout. I shoot the famous 22 Nosler, and excessive gas causes pulled rims, and smears.
The blowout probably took out the bolt head in the area of the extractor that has no rim support. That is the most likely spot to blow a bolt. That, or adjacent broken lug. Extractor pin broke when extractor blew out. Were all lugs intact with the cracked bolt?
Brass is also suspect. Thin spot in the unsupported area or a thin web. The old Federal thin web issue blew out webs and damaged rifles when reloaded. 0.180" was the web thickness deemed reloadable.
I give you a pass on the actual reloading. I don't know how much of that powder you can cram into a .223 case anyway. How close to compressed is your load?
Bullet push back, from a chamber tightened by carbon, could be a cause of excessive pressure.
Pin in flash hole would have blown primer, reduced flash into powder column. Probably not the case.
If you plan on this NOT happening in the future, DON'T toss out any parts or components. Something may come from a future exam. Impossible with stuff sent to the landfill

Glad all fingers are still intact and functioning.
Best to you in the furure.