dellet
Gold $$ Contributor
There is a lot of responsibility on those of us here, to insure that the meaning of Memorial Day is understood and remembered. Memorialized. A recent talk made this very clear to me.
Speaking with some one who had recently lost a parent, touched me as I recently lost my mother. First year for both of us, so with Mother’s Day behind, fathers day approaching, the talk was about all those “firsts without” a loved one.
As the talk turned to giving back as part of the healing process, how and when, what might be appropriate became the subject. Since Memorial Day is approaching handing out flowers to random people was on the table, then refined to watching for folks with some sort of Veterans ID, hat, shirt, bumper sticker.
At this point I distinguished the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day. One for the living, one for those who gave all. Here I introduced the meaning of the Gold Star. It was something she had not heard the meaning of before.
So if you’re a Gold Star mom, or family member who is proudly displaying that star this weekend or any other day at home, wearing a pin, flying a flag or whatever, and some random person walks up and hands you some flowers, or you find them on your porch, it’s because in some small way they understand.
I also will be on the lookout for Gold Star pins and flags this weekend, flowers in hand.
Speaking with some one who had recently lost a parent, touched me as I recently lost my mother. First year for both of us, so with Mother’s Day behind, fathers day approaching, the talk was about all those “firsts without” a loved one.
As the talk turned to giving back as part of the healing process, how and when, what might be appropriate became the subject. Since Memorial Day is approaching handing out flowers to random people was on the table, then refined to watching for folks with some sort of Veterans ID, hat, shirt, bumper sticker.
At this point I distinguished the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day. One for the living, one for those who gave all. Here I introduced the meaning of the Gold Star. It was something she had not heard the meaning of before.
So if you’re a Gold Star mom, or family member who is proudly displaying that star this weekend or any other day at home, wearing a pin, flying a flag or whatever, and some random person walks up and hands you some flowers, or you find them on your porch, it’s because in some small way they understand.
I also will be on the lookout for Gold Star pins and flags this weekend, flowers in hand.