I can't offer any technical advice that other more qualified people have already covered.
What I can offer, is encouragement to keep doing what you are already doing. Learning like a girl. Find the mentor/teacher that understands that great quality.
Most guys would already own probably the wrong rifle for what they want to do, along with all the clothes, gear, weather monitors and of course mastered the "tactical nod" needed to try and hide the fact they don't know what they are doing.
Gals seem to ask questions long before they find the wrong answer and have to correct what "they already know". That generally flattens the learning curve for women and saves them a ton of money and aggravation..
Probably some of the best husband brownie points I have earned over the years, have been if my wife wants to try something I am doing, I get her her own gear as much as possible. The "here use this until you decide you if you like it" is almost a sure way to spoil the fun. If it doesn't fit, it's not fun, More so in something like shooting where it will effect the score.
Good luck and enjoy the time spent. There are a lot of guys, and I am probably be one, that wish they could shoot like a girl.