Another thing to be aware of is the long pointy nose of some VLD bullets may not "fit" as well into a standard seating die stem. This can sometimes cause runout and non-uniform seating depth. For that reason, some die manufacturers offer VLD seating stems, which are shaped internally to better fit the long pointy nose of VLD bullets. Redding also offers at least two different lengths of seating stems, to keep the die micrometer adjustment within the usable range for different length bullets/cartridges. If your seating die stem is working correctly when the micrometer is adjusted properly for the VLDs you're using (i.e. the VLD bullets are going in the necks straight with no excessive runout), it is probably not necessary to buy another stem. However, you may have the option to do so, depending on the die manufacturer.
The real key to your initial inquiry is to always set the die micrometer a little long, especially when loading a new bullet. If the CBTO measurement is too long, you can always dial the mic down incrementally and give the loaded round another stroke with the press until you reach the desired CBTO. If you go to far in, the only way to really fix it is to pull the bullet and start over, which is a PITA.