James,
It has been my impression that the more common definition of jam (in the tradition of short range benchrest) has specified the use of neck tension that is the same as will be used in loaded rounds. This is not to quarrel with anyone's method. Obviously there are several approaches to describing seating depth that can be used, and although it may make answers a bit longer, I think that including ones own definition of the word is always a good idea, especially if the object of the exercise is to enable the duplication of what one is describing.
On a related matter, since I use an arbor press die to seat my 6PPC bullets, and it does not have a micrometer top (a very closely fitting custom seater) I record the combined length of the stem and cap. This can involve a little visualization and math that recently resulted in me making an error that shot very well.
The intent of the exercise was to end up with the bullet off of the lands, but to use jam (determined with actual loaded round neck tension) as the starting point. The target seating depth was .030 off, or shorter than jam. I set the seater to produce a length that would have the bullet pushed back when the round was chambered, loaded the round, measured the length, and the combined length of the stem and cap at that setting. Then I chambered the round, and remeasured its length, noting the exact amount that it was shortened.
It was at this point that I made my mistake. I should have added the difference of the lengths to the amount that I wanted to be off jam, and added the total to my starting stem and cap length to get the setting needed to be .030 off jam. (Longer stem and cap measurements produce shorter loaded rounds.) What I did was to get in too big of a hurry and add the difference in measurements and then subtract .030. It wasn't until I had shot a couple of test groups that I it started to dawn on me that I had made a mistake, and set my die to seat the bullets .030 longer than jam, effectively loading my rounds to "soft seat" the bullets. The fact that I was using a bushing that produced medium neck tension had made my error less obvious, although I should have picked up on it when I chambered the first round, from the slight additional effort that it took to close the bolt.
Anyway, just as I was about to correct my mistake, it occurred to me that since the object of the exercise was to find a seating depth that gave good accuracy, and the test groups appeared to be good, that perhaps I should stick with the mistake, since the results were what I was looking for.
At that point, I determined that it was about time to pack up, and made a note to see if there would be a problem with bullets being pulled from case necks when unloading the rifle, on my next trip to the range, as well as correcting my mistake, and doing the test that I had originally intended.
Boyd