I think this is a trap we can fall into from time to time, I admit I certainly have in the past.
The combo doesn't seem to be working for you and your barrel and that is all that matters. Ive wasted too much barrel life in the past persevering with what shot well for others instead of trying to find what shot well for my barrel and me.
Agree. I'm going to play with it just a bit longer around the suggested loads. If it doesn't work out, I'm ready to move on to something different in the load.