The neck tension should prevent you from turning the bullet. The taper crimp is to close the flare, not really increase the bullet hold. A roll crimp into a cannelure groove, is to prevent the primer from starting the bullet out of the case on the slow burning hard to ignite powder like H110 W296. You have something else going on.
+1 the neck tension should hold it very tight... I have loaded a bunch of .38 for my wife.. I use Win 231 just because I have it for 9mm and it's position sensitive because I use so little down loading it for a Ruger LCR because it's very light weight pistol for practice rounds , so a good crimp is necessary or you will get unburned powder everytime especially using S/B primers... I am using Berry bullets , win 231 , any good primer and a Lee FCD...
I think I saw your rcbs dies have a taper crimp..?? Most have a roll crimp...
So just to help...
1. Your neck tension should hold the bullet very tight , it shouldn't move , so something is going on there.... Yet you will still need a good crimp...
2. Use a powder that fills the case as much as possible since this is an old black powder cartridge... This helps alot...
3. Use any good primer... Federal , Winchester or CCI...
4. A good tight crimp is your friend on this cartridge or you will get unburned powder or goofy inconsistent ignition problems , I can't express this enough... I use a roll crimp on it even though there's no canalure on Barry's bullets it doesn't hurt them if you don't get crazy...
5. If you decide to try another die set , the Lee 4 die set with the FCD is hard to beat.... If you use your rcbs dies , size and crimp in two separate steps always...
6. Although I absolutely hate it , I do trim my pistol brass to get a more consistent crimp... It sucks yes but you only have to do it once for the life of the brass and normally that life is long.... You will find lengths of pistol brass all over the place...
7. Useing about 4 spare bullets check your crimp by turning the die in ( quarter turns ) pulling the bullets afterwards to see the crimp and how much it's deforming the bullet..This way you know exactly how much crimp is being applied... Of course don't install primers or powder...
Your neck tension is the first thing I would address , the rest of this stuff solved alot of problems for me... I don't know why you're getting such loose neck tension unless you're setting the die up wrong , you shouldn't be able to twist or move the bullet once seated , the crimp just helps hold it , I know you're a experienced loader but you might want to recheck the setup... You don't want a bullet recoiling forward out of the case and locking the cylinder etc...
EDIT....
IF your useing a powder like Win 231 that only fills the case about a quarter of the way , make damn sure you check EVERY CASE with a flashlight etc before loading , It is EXTREMELY EASY to get a double charge and not catch it because the case will only be half full with a double charge... Because of this , after I dump powder I seat a bullet and move on to the next case... I don't load a loading block full like 9mm , with 9mm if you double charged the case would be over flowing , with .38 it won't be...WATCH FOR THIS...
Hope any of this helps....
Shawn