Check your rim thickness again, my Remington rims average .058-.059 in thickness.
My 30-30 cases all fail from split necks and I have never had a case head separation.
So again the max chamber pressure in the 30-30 is not high enough to make the case stretch to the bolt face.
Below is the SAAMI 30-30 cartridge and chamber drawing and it shows the MAX rim thickness of .063 and minimum rim thickness of .053. So average several of your cases and make sure you are not measuring a bur on the inside of the rim.
You can also do what they do with belted cases and let your 30-30 headspace on its shoulder. This will decrease the head clearance or the "air space" between the base of the case and the bolt face.
And on a .303 British Enfield rifle at the max headspace of .074 and a rim thickness of .058 the primer can back out .016. So remember as long as you are not having case head separations, it means the base of the case is not moving to the rear, stretching, and contacting the bolt face.
P.O. Ackley did an experiment and removed the locking bolt on a 30-30 rifle and remotely test fired it. He made sure the chamber was dry and oil free along with the cartridge. The "DRY" case gripped the chamber walls and did not move to the rear and all that happened was the primer backed out. No kaboom or damage to the rifle or case.
Below a British competitive shooter posted this photo here of 7mm Mauser cases with factory loaded ammo. As you can see the primers backed out due to the longer military headspace and low chamber pressure.
So I will tell you what a British competitive shooter said to me in a Enfield forum. "JUST SHOOT THE BLOODY RIFLE" And low pressure cartridges will always allow the primer to back out, and its not the end of the world.