I always lube the neck and the body when using a bushing style die, or a standard type die.
I would expect you to get scratches in a longitudinal direction on the neck without lube.
Have you cleaned your bushing that is giving you taper?
I just now checked a fired 6BR, and then sized it. Case has at least 10 t0 15 firings on it. Chamber neck is .272, cases are not neck turned, my JGS reamer only did one barrel before this one.
As fired there is a slight taper on the neck OD, about.0004. This is expected as the case supports the neck and the open end does not support it
After sizing in a Whidden bushing die, with a Redding TiN bushing, there is a bit more taper, as you do not size all the way to the case-neck junction, and there is a slight radius on the bushing. Taper from open end to where the bushing stops is about .0008.
I experienced the same result with pins. One goes in all the way, one (.001 larger) stops at the donut, and the next .001 larger almost starts in the case mouth.
All these dimensions are very hard to measure, as the neck is never round, the case walls vary as they are not turned, and the case develops a donut due to brass flow. The Starrett mic I use has a .234 diameter spindle, and the neck is only about .290 long, so it is always measuring almost the full neck length.
To determine the taper, I set the mike at the diameter near the mouth, and slid it towards the case body, where it stopped I opened the mic to read at that diameter.
In my case, the donut is not a problem as my bullet base is above the donut by about .06/.07.
So, you are not alone in your situation, and I do not believe there is a problem.
Look at it this way:
First pin doesn't count, as it is going through the donut, which should not be there anyway. Get rid of the donut, or have your bullet stop above it where it does not effect you.
Second pin fits, at least to the donut, that's your size
Third pin wont go in the mouth, as it should not.