Well, I'm out there for everyone to see. I spent 25 years in the Navy and 20 years as an Investigator. If someone wants to come get me, I say, "Bring it on."
Sounds good on paper. But I'm not the only person in the house to worry about and they are more important than me. And if I'm at work or otherwise not around, women and kids probably aren't going to get it done.
Learned a long time ago, trying to make yourself a target has a high probability of being a successful endeavor.