Good stuff. I agree. Maybe this might help....
First I haven't played with seating depth at all yet. ONLY trying to test powder charge amts get some good velocity #'s.
That and....I've gotten into the 0.1's 0.2s and 0.3 consistently in three other calibers. I could be wrong, but I'm guessing good looking groups lie in seating depth adjustment and finding the right powder charge.
Everything else you mentioned is very important. And I've used it all before to have other good success. This 6 Dasher is the longest I've ever taken to find a good load.
Others have been helping me via PM to address the other issues you raise. Beginning with a good quality front rest.