areaone said:
Thought the same of my ex wife, but later regretted I didn't
Now, shooting a wife, or soon to be ex, just isn't proper.
Pay the damn divorce attorney, man up that she gets more than her fair share and, let her go.
Now, the good part. She will end up with the guy she's been sleeping with while still professing her love to you. Six to Eighteen months after the divorce she will call, crying and about on her 6th drink, admitting her mistake of taking you for granted and the home you provided. She will admit that she never tried to put a decent meal on the table and, that she now realizes that the house needs cleaning more than spring and fall. She may even mention that you deserve to have clean cloths (since you bought her the fancy washer and dryer she had to have) and she might even promis to use the machines more than once a month.
The best thing to do is tell her you will think about it, that you need time to reflect and, that you will call her back.
Buy the local paper; within 48 hours you will find in the (court reporter section) that she had her boyfriend arrested for domestic abuse and, if you check with the local court, she has several collection accounts and one or two bad checks and court dates to address the matters.
Don't take hers calls for seven days. On the eight day, take her call, let her blabber for 15-20 minutes about how much she misses you then, tell her that you thought about her proposal, that you discussed it with your new girlfriend and, you think it's best to say goodbye (please never call me again) because for the first time in your life you are living very well and, you never knew what happiness was.
In short, she will wish she was dead and, she will suffer far more than a quick bullet. The moral of the story; the best revenge is to live well. Nothing, nothing will drive then crazier.