Middle age!First, how old is your son? I only ask this in reference to his ability to remember trajectories and settings. If young, you may want to keep is simple like you mentioned. I would probably just set the zero where you want and then give them one or two hash mark yardages. If he's full gun nut like the rest of us, go hog wild with dope charts!
One thing to mention, you can map out those hash marks/subtensions at any magnification. However, as you know, since it's SFP those subtensions (except the center dot) will change at each magnification. I mention this because, you will want your son to practice with the scope in the applications he wants to use it. Then he may have a preference for what magnification he is most comfortable with.
For example, on my SFP hunting rifles with BDC scopes, I never chart my subtensions at max magnification, because that I not what I am comfortable with when hunting deer. 12x or 14x is just too much magnification.
Since the rifle is 5.56, I would personally use the scope on 1x 90% of the time. 4x 9.9% of the time. and 8x 0.1% of the time. So I would make my dope card using the 4x magnification. Which also will work better with the 5.56 round. The only time I would use 8x is if I was plinking steel at long range. And at that point you don't really need to know the distances for your 1st shot.
I guess I'm saying, find out what the preferred magnification is, and use that for the dope chart. I have the Vortex Strike Eagle 1-8x and my chart is for 4x.
You have plenty of information to think about. Are you scopes first or second focal plane devices?