You are dealing with two constraints here. The first would be whether you need/want to seat bullets so that loaded rounds can be fed from a magazine. The second would be whether that particular bullet prefers being seated within a certain [close] distance to the lands that would
preclude feeding from a magazine.
If you need to feed from a mag, determine the longest COAL you can have that will still reliably feed. Set that as your "zero", or "reference point", then optimize seating depth by shortening COAL in small increments (i.e. moving the bullet farther away from the lands). You should be able to find a seating depth window that works for that bullet, even though it may be jumping a fair distance. Because you don't know exactly how far off the lands it may be necessary to seat the bullet, you might try to cover a wider range of seating depths in larger increments first, then fine tune using smaller increments within a narrower seating range that appears to be optimum.
If you are OK with single feeding rounds, determine COAL with the bullet seated at just "touching" the lands. Set that as you zero/reference point, then again optimize seating depth by shortening COAL in small increments (i.e. moving the bullet farther away from the lands). It is not uncommon to find an optimized seating depth within about .030" or so of the lands. I don't particularly care to seat bullets into the lands for a variety of reasons unless they will not tune in anywhere else. With this approach, you can always go back and seat bullets longer (i.e. into the lands) if you don't identify an optimal seating depth with the bullets seated off the lands. I have rarely found that to be necessary with the bullets I typically use, but it is an option that is always available, if necessary. Just remember that if you find it necessary to seat the bullets into the lands, the loaded rounds will still be too long to feed from a magazine.
One caveat to either of these approaches is that if you have to change the seating depth of the bullet by a very large amount, pressure will increase for a given charge weight as the bullet is seated farther and farther from the lands and the effective case volume decreases. Just be aware of this and decrease the charge weight if necessary.
Berger has a protocol that was originally designed for optimizing seating depth with VLD bullets (link below), which can sometimes be finicky with respect to optimizing seating depth. It was intended to cover a very wide seating depth range initially so as to identify a particular seating depth
region where a given bullet grouped better than when seated elsewhere. That region could then be tested again in finer increments to fine-tune a final seating depth. This protocol should work with a variety of bullets in addition to VLDs. Again, the key is that it covers a very wide seating depth range initially, helping you narrow down an optimized seating depth range. One approach might be to try this method, single feeding all the loaded rounds as you carry out the testing. Once you have identified the optimal seating depth region, you can determine from the loaded rounds whether they will feed reliably from a magazine. If so, you're GTG using a mag. If not, you can always single feed them if that is acceptable to you.
VLD bullets are designed with a secant ogive. This ogive shape allows bullets to be more efficient in flight (retain more velocity = less drop and wind deflection). While this result is desirable for many rifle shooters the secant ogive on the VLD bullets produces another result in many rifle.
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