Yes, don't understand the issue.
If'n you're going to use chambering at seating, as long as your neck tension is light enough or nonexistent, and your leade is configured to assist with alignment.
If I read correctly, you have 1.5 mil runout, which is not unacceptable.
The bullet and case being "too long" for seating is ridiculous. Aside from having to drill out seater stems to accommodate long points like with the Berger OTM tips, just back the die out.
For example, before I received my dies from Gunwerks, I used a 7 SAUM to seat 180's in my 7mm LRM cartridges.
Back the die way out, back the sliding seater stem out, measure, lock, and go. No measurable runout.
Have you tried using a split shaft collar installed on the ram below the press to limit its upward travel? Once limited, fine length adjustments can be achieved via the die micrometer.
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Regarding putting a locking collet on the ram below the bearing, not a good idea. As as your arm extends down, because it's a camming action, the force on the ram increases *significantly*. Unless you have clamped the locking collar to the point of stretching the collar locking bolts, you'll just move it on the ram, possibly gouging the surface. That would be an "oops".