Just to throw a monkey wrench into the works, a brand new reamer isn't always a superior choice. That said, there are advantages to buying your own reamer if you plan to have more then one barrel made. Assuming the rifle builder knows how to dial in a barrel and sets similar headspace each time, your brass is reusable with subsequent barrels. I do this all the time with my own stuff I chamber at home, as do many others.
In terms of SAAMI vs Wildcat, it depends. Many Wildcats are a pain and require a learning curve. If a customer wants a wildcat--normally because of the mistaken idea that they need the absolute top velocity for a hunting rifle--I spend time explaining to them all the steps needed to make it work. I talk about necking up, necking down, fire forming, etc. I explain about how sometimes it takes several steps to neck down a cartridge to avoid crushing the shoulder, to get rid of the bell mouth at the case mouth, and to get the case neck straight.
If a customer doesn't understand this well enough I push them away from cartridges that need a lot of work. Not all wildcats need a lot of work. Our 6 UM-40 needs fireforming where our 6 UM-30 has head stamped ADG brass available. There is maybe 50-100 fps between the two.
Also, wildcats--even when based on a standard cartridge, can vary slightly in dimensions that can create problems. Our 6 UM-30 and 6 UM-40 are based on a 6.5 SAUM case, and that case can be used to make these cartridges. However, brass fired in these 6 UM cartridges will not likely fit into a 6 SAUM IMP chamber. After developing these cartridges we wound up with a bit larger size at the .200 line than the SAUM. This slight variation can create issues from cases being hard to size to clickers. Because of that we support both of these cartridges with reamers, dies, and brass.
I suppose that technically, when we throat a chamber longer that the SAAMI or CIP spec, it is no longer to spec, but that really isn't an issue. Now some guys think that when we throat a chamber for a certain bullet that it means the barrel will shoot that bullet well. That isn't true at all. It only means that the bullet seats optimally in the case with no bullet bearing surface taking away powder capacity.