Some case designs show pressure less than others. 40 degree shoulders do not show primer signs to the degree that cases with smaller angles do, but that does not mean that the pressure is not there.
This is a good example of cases NOT showing pressure at all. They're showing you their character under pressure.
With what you're saying, and I agree:
Run newly fire formed 6Dasher with a 70Kpsi load, per QL, and observe any changes.
Do the same with a 243win, incrementally, until observing the same changes.
At this point the 243win is not showing you 70Kpsi pressure, if anything it's showing ~58Kpsi(by QL), so the same 'pressure signs' here are way less indicative of actual pressure.
I personally trust QL math, for pressure, over these signs. It's not going to be off so much as to kill me (that takes extra efforts).
I measure the web lines, not to determine over pressure, but because I want my brass to last.
If everything's great, shooting great, cases problem free, extraction ok, but QuickLoad shows I'm 10Kpsi above SAAMI max, or 10Kpsi below, I don't care about that. And if my
actual pressure is ~5Kpsi different than QL predicts, why would I care?
On the other hand, if I get popping extraction, it's time to seek a solution, possibly permanent, that includes lower pressure(regardless of actual). That's just something I can't put up with.