I tighten by feel, but have a lot of time in with a wrench and screwdriver in my hand. There are situations where I use a torque wrench, like engine building, and anywhere I think that there is a danger of stripping a threaded hole. As to bedding bases, I do it if close inspection indicates the fit is anything but perfect. With the exception of Burris Signature rings, I always lap. Until you cycle the lapping bar in the rings a few times, there is no way to really know what you have for contact, and in this era of over $2,000 scopes, I refuse to assume anything. Where the ring caps part, I do the corners and edges of the parting line, rounding them off slightly, after I have good contact by lapping. Some years back, I mounted some scopes for the owner of the company that I worked for, they included two 40X Marchs, and a 10-60. I did the best work that I know how to, and when they were removed from their rings, there was narry a mark. It seems to me that some people do not have the temperament for this sort of work, and for them, I recommend that they either find someone who does, or use scopes that are affordable enough that they will not be upset when they find ring marks. I really like Kokopelli bars, and if you insist on using turn in rings, his alignment bars. IMO they are the best.