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Just a good day

My dads old truck hasn't been driven for quite a while. Its a 1994 F150 with a 300 inline 6. Both fuel pumps were bad "dual tank" its taken me about 4 days to complete the job do to other things popping up. I opted to remove the bed since both pumps were bad....without going into useless detail about the truck it all came down to this. I finished the job sweating to death and get to see a smile 10 miles wide on my old mans face. My Dad is my hero and the greatest man I have ever known in my life. I never knew until about 2 years ago when my parent house burnt and I came home on leave from the Marines to help them get everything in line. I was going through papers and found out the had two Bronze Stars and Three Purple Hearts from Vietnam. My dad is very soft spoken with the crystal clear blue eyes. Before I could even read the Warrants he pulled them from my hands and wouldn't tell me how they were earned. His life will end soon do to health reasons if he lasts another year well all be surprised.

Sitting on the porch looking over the toes of my work boots.....20 MPH wind with the wheat and big oaks blowing in the wind drinking an ice cold root beer....taxes are paid and the job is done....my 7 year old giggling at the millions of locust that are visiting us and my beautiful wife there every step of the way.....I still get swollen up inside with pride when my dad looks me in the eye with a hand on my shoulder and tells me good job boy thank you. Just a good day.


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There are many more "small" moments in life than big ones. Enjoy them. As to your father, it sounds like you are a very lucky man.
 
Treasure the moments. My Dad died in 2000. He taught me many lessons; a love for machinery, shooting and metal working as well as how to be a Dad.

I knew a few of the experiences he had in WWII but he shared one from the Battle of the Bulge he had kept to himself shortly before he died. He felt it was something I should know and he didn't share it with the rest of the family for reasons known only to him.

He will be with you the rest of your life. You are blessed to have the relationship with your family that you have.

T W Hudson
 
That is not just a "good day"! It was an awesome day and a MILESTONE in your memories! This will be something you can tell your kids when they are about your age! It is this kind of relationship that many young men wish they had with their fathers! EXCELLENT DAY INDEED!!!
 
I love my son and I am proud of him. I miss my Dad and think of him often. You Sir have had a very blessed day. Thank you for sharing.

Don Dunlap
 
Thanks for the kind words. In this crazy world today I truly believe if there were more good Fathers at home these kids wouldn't grow up and act the way they do. I was hell on wheels when I was a kid lol....A Preachers Son....My Dad always had my back even if it was his belt at about 108mph. I know I am very lucky indeed if not for him I may have never joined the Marines...I know I wouldn't have. My Father challenged me to do better, to be better...I love him



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Best post I ever read on here. The world would be a batter place if there were more people like you around.
 
OIF/OEF
I know exactly who your father is, literally, because when we came back from Vietnam we were scorned for where we'd been and what we did by those who wouldn't or couldn't. Vietnam wasn't popular. For one thing, not many Americans had parents of Vietnamese descent. Where as many Americans could relate to the two big wars because it was fought on the turf their parents and they themselves had trod. I was never spit upon however many who came back from Vietnam were. I did clean one guys clock because he told me I was stupid for not running to Canada like he did. All I can say is he deserved the beating he got. Like your father, the medals were put away and the deeds that brought them to us were sealed away in our little brains. There to remain only as memories.
I knew Bob and Jim Lamb in Wheatley, Ontario, Canada. They were two of the quietest hell raisers around. They were about 20 years older than me. I could see they had a certain air about them that endeared them to their contemporary buddies. They could take a prank as well as they could dish then out. About 20 years ago I went to Bob Lamb's funeral in Leamington, Ontario. Next to his coffin at the funeral home was a shadow box with his Army medals in it. Wow. Bob Lamb was the second most decorated Canadian soldier in WW II. His medals included the equivalent of our Medal of Honor. I mentioned to, his son, my brother in law that he never mentioned this. He said, hell no, Uncle Jim had one more. They joined together and they served together. And they both came back.
My point is the best are generally the ones that say the least with their mouth; you can see it in their actions. When you shout, people tend to turn you off. When you whisper, people strain to hear.
 
Great post. The greatest pleasures in life are often the small ones. The sad part is that most people don't take the time to recognize them. You have the ability to recognize the small ones.
Enjoy your dad. Mine is gone now (WII Marine) and I miss him every day. When he was gone, there was a thousand question I wanted to ask. I would catch myself reaching for the phone.

Semper Fi Brother
Ken
 
Great story as my Dad was similar and spoke softly. I commend you brother for putting up such a great post.
 
I know Ill never get a chance to meet most anyone off this site. As crazy as this may sound I look to you guys like family. I can come on here and speak my mind sometimes saying things about your feelings is easier spoken to complete strangers.....I've never met a more honest person than someone I've never met. You guys are not just shooters selling goods and offering advice. Shooting has become the only thing I love these days and more than I want to admit I like getting on here and seeing whats going on with my extended "family". Thank yall very very much for that. If someone says something stupid or out of line just like brothers we may argue a little and everyone laughs and meets in the middle again. While the young guys like myself sit quietly and learn....two ears one mouth rule.


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