Since posting this and reading posts of others, more and more people I’ve been fortunate to meet come to mind. I’ve always had interest in peoples stories and probably just impolite enough to ask if there was a hint of something that sounded interesting. Sometimes ignorance and a slow brain to mouth filter payoff. When you can put a face to history, it changes your perspective, at least mine. So many influences, large and small.
There was the social blunder made before tattoos really became mainstream, of asking a long time customer about a tattoo I had caught a glimpse of on her forearm. She always wore long sleeves, even on the hottest days. Not something I expected to see on a gal pushing 80 years in the late 1980’s. Add in the giant clue of always addressing her as Mrs. Goldstein. Possibly one of the most beneficial social blunders of my early life. Her and her sister both survived the camps.
I’ve had the honor meeting veterans from every war since the Spanish American, pilots from WWI, the man who taught Eddie Rickenbacker to fly. Medal of Honor holders, a gal that delivered the aircraft to Europe during WWII. A guy who retired as a pilot after flying WWII, Korea, Vietnam. Said after counting up missions flown in combat in three wars, he felt he should make room for a younger guy.
The unrecognized heroes, an old Avocado farmer and whose answer to “what did you do in the war “was simply “drove a tractor”. If he liked you enough, he’d show you a photo of him on his bulldozer with “Welcome Marines“ painted on the blade, as landing craft approached a beach.
Guys who served Vietnam, many are more like older brothers, so there is a different influence than the older folks. You get the perspective of two generations talking with those guys. They are still current events, not exactly history yet. Maybe only because I don’t want to be that old. But some of these guys I have worked along side of, so their knowledge and experiences, just have a different feel.
Cold War veterans or covert. Grenada, El Salvador, Middle east, Bay of pigs, Somalia……
A common soldier who was stationed at Check Point Charlie and happened to be on duty when the wall was breached and started to be torn down.
I had a customer disappear on a bill. Abandoned his car. This was long before cell phones and in San Diego. I had often dealt with service men and knew if I could get ahold of his CO, I could get the guy to come in and work out the bill. I got stonewalled on this one. Finally left a detailed message of why I was calling, and basically just didn’t want this guy to lose his car for a bill of a couple hundred dollars. The return call and visit from his CO explained it all without words. I recognized the emblem of a submariner. Deployed on short notice not all that uncommon, no time to wrap things up. It, can a hard life even in peace time. At least I got a thank you about six months later. No good story tho.
Our youngest combat veterans who could be my children or grandchildren, if I had any. The rush of kids that signed up after 9/11. Those that stopped by my shop or wife’s classroom to say goodbye, and it was, leave a mark.
There are a lot of days like June 6, 1944, that we pause to remember. It’s good to do that. Better to step back and look at the whole.
It’s hard for me to imagine I’ve accumulated close to 150 years of personal stories from veterans. I wish I’d written them all down when fresh. All I can say is that the stories from the youngest to the oldest aren’t all that different. Mostly simple guys and gals stepping up to the plate and taking their best swing when it’s their turn.
For the old guys, there’s still time to pass on your experiences, help a young guy out. For the young guys, start collecting those stories. They will change your life.
“Never forget”, is a two way street. Can’t remember what I haven’t been told.