Did you read all 130 posts? ;]
As the OP of this thread, yes I did. I am going to change my habits a little.
I live in Montana, and I like to reload in large batches to maximize my range time in good weather. A couple of things that work for me - I have naturally low humidity, and my reloading happens indoors under temperature control because the garage and outbuildings are not heated.
I clean my brass using two methods. For the first few cycles I tumble with media. I also have a sonic cleaner that I use after 5 or so loads to recapture the "shine" and clean the inner cartridge base. My instances of cold welding have happened after loading new brass or after loading sonic-cleaned cases.
I believe that the carbon left in the necks after firing aids in reduction of cold welding. Whether you believe that or not is irrelevant to me. When I load new or sonic-cleaned the seating pressure is almost always higher than fired and tumbled.
As a rule I form habits that promote consistency. Starting this year I will be tumbling everything before sizing. After I size and prime I will be using a container with BB's and graphite and dipping/swirling each neck. I tried it over the course of this thread and it has not reduced my seating force; BUT, it has averaged (weighted mean) it.
I am very hesitant to use a liquid, paste, or non-carbon based lubricant for seating. It is messy, and provides a catalyst for ion-transfer between surfaces - something that carbon doesn't.
I want to thank everyone that chimed in, even the trolls. This thread is actually fairly comprehensive and the first long discussion of it's kind that I have found. The thread should allow a free-thinking reloader to adjust reloading habits or ignore cold welding as they see fit.
Thanks all!
Shawn