I'm a physicist/mechanical engineer with a lot of experience in threaded joints. I use a technique that I learned in the nuclear industry. Don't know if it helps but it can't hurt. It is called embeddment and goes like this (this gets a bit technical so if you want you can skip to the last two paragraphs):
If both sets of threads are perfect 60 degree V's like you draw them on paper with no dings, gouges of imperfections, when you snug them up they will make full contact and any further tightening will be straining the metal (stretching it). In this case, the threads are 16tpi (remington) which means .062" per revolution. so those turning it 1/4 turn are/would be stretching the tenon .015" which is way beyond the yield strength of the steel.
Of course that isn't what is really happening. First the threads aren't perfect and second there are some real world issues such as lube that gets squeezed out and joint alignment issues (probably small with a good gunsmith), etc. So what most of that 1/4 turn is doing is working through all of the imperfections before you start stretching the tenon. So depending on how much turn it takes to start stretching the tenon, 1/4 turn could be anywhere from moderately tight to breaking it. So i don't like using x/y turn past snug for this application. I'm sure some guys make it work but they probably modify it based on feel and are actually doing a torque by experience method and experience almost always works.
Now to calculate a torque isn't that hard. You want to usually torque to 50% of yeild which on a quality action is probably somewhere around 75ksi for carbon steel, not sure about what type of stainless is used. Austenitic stainless is usually much less than that. The force from torquing if T=.2F/D where D is thread diameter in feet. Stress is then F/A where A is the cross sectional area of the tenon, which of course varies with the chamber. You would probably come out with somwhere in the 50-75 ft lbs range, perhaps higher. For example, 50% of yield torque on a high strength 1/2" bolt is 60 ft lbs. But force is higher on the larger diameter barrel threads.
Getting back to embeddment, for those of you that haven't fallen asleep yet: Embeddment is a method to remove as many of the imperfections as possible and mate the threads together as much as possible to eliminate relaxation, thus negating the need for excessive torque. Embedement is very simple, tighten and loosen the joint to about 80% tight a dozen times of so. I do it lubricated but the idea is that is seats all imperfections so that after final torque, there is no room for movement in the joint so when you fire the rifle the joint doesn't relax and loosen up.
Another factor that negates the need for excessive torque is that rifle barrel joints seem to get tighter over time rather than looser. The need for huge action wrenches and barrel vises if for disassembly, not assembly.
So in conclusion, I do my embeddment routine and then snug it up good and tight with the action wrench. I'd guess about 40-50 ft lbs.
--Jerry