No doubt the Swede in a modern rifle is a treat to shoot.
The problem with crowning any cartridge a "king" based on your personal risk tolerance for pushing pressure is that is says nothing about the merits of the cartridge, but rather it says only how much risk you want to take. A similarly adventurous .260 shooter could push a 140 to 3000fps in 28". Does that make the 260 better? I've elsewhere linked a video of a 6.5 creedmoor pushing a 140gr bullet to >2800 in a 22" barrel. Does that make the creedmoor superior? NO. Because it only shows how far someone will push a round.
So your first premise of "with pressures being equal" is invalid. By design, the pressures are not equal. You are exceeding pressure for the 6.5x55, putting the thumb on the scale.
And 4gr more powder capacity isn't significant when--as you said yourself- burn rates are "slower, near the slowest."
Hodgdon data illustrates this point.
Hodgdon shows only two loads for the 6.5x55 capable of pushing 140gr over 2700fps in a standard barrel. One powder is the new StaBall 6.5, the other is IMR4831, not exactly a slow powder. The 4831 max charge is 46.3gr.
The next slowest Hodgdon power is H4831 (per their chart), giving a max MV of 2586-- a substantial drop-- at 47.0gr
Continuing down the burn rate chart, we get to IMR 4955: 46.3gr, 2684fps.
7828SSC: 48.2gr, 2678fps
IMR7977: 49.1gr, 2646fps.-- This charge is compressed, so there's no point in going slower on powder.
What the evidence says is pretty clear: The loss of burn speed (pressure) more than offsets the extra few grains of powder you can fit in the case. Even at 51.5gr of H1000, you STILL haven't increased the MV above what just 46.3gr of IMR4831 gave you. Again, you can't make up in charge weight what you lose in pressure. There's just not enough case there.
By contrast, the 260 will push a 140 to 2730fps with 50.5 grains of H1000. A grain less of the same powder and yet more speed.
There's no royalty here. Just flavors of excellence.