I cannot state in your specific case that overpressure is necessarily the cause, but it
can happen. I (and quite a few others) have used a fairly warm load for the .223 Rem with 90 VLDs over H4895 in F-TR for years. Primer pocket life of Lapua brass with this load is poor, perhaps four firings at best before the pockets will no longer hold a primer. With brass fired using this load, the issue you are asking about becomes noticeable after the first or second firing. Specifically, the case can no longer be readily turned 360 degrees in the shell holder due to "high spots" at the bottom of the extractor groove. With .223 Rem brass, the the primer pocket depth extends very close to the
top of the extractor groove. If the primer pockets are expanding with a warm load to where they eventually won't hold a primer, that means the brass is expanding in exactly the same region as the extractor groove. In other words, the extractor groove represent a region that is relatively unsupported and therefore less resistant to pressure because a substantial amount of metal has been removed in making the extractor groove. By analogy, Lapua Palma .308 Win brass (small rifle primer) can take much higher pressure than standard .308 Win brass (large rifle primer) because there is more metal around the primer pocket to withstand the higher pressure. Likewise, I am fairly certain that of there were such a thing as .223 Rem brass that had no extractor groove at all, it would likely withstand the pressure of this particular load much better and the primer pockets would last a longer than they do. Of course, extracting a fired case might be difficult.
In my hands, this this is unlikely to be the tolerances of the shell holder, as a given shell holder works perfectly on virgin brass, and at least two different shell holders exhibit the exact same issue with a given case not being able to be turned 360 degrees after firing a couple times. Although it is possible that a different manufacturer's shell holder might have a looser tolerance and therefore not exhibit this issue, or that the lip of a shell holder could be opened up a little bit so that the problem went away, I can't imagine that having a "loose" shell holder is a good idea, either. I have played around with the idea of using a ring die (small base die) with the .223 Rem brass to squeeze it down and possibly get a little more life out of the primer pockets by squeezing them down at the very base a little more. I bought one and tried it and I think the idea might have merit, but in order to make it work, I figured out I would have to machine down the the thickness (top edge) of the shell holder so that the ring die could size even further down the case/extractor groove. I haven't tried that as yet.