Sizing near webs 7-8thou is definitely not the correct action, or normal.
There is not a situation, in any industry, where excess sizing or excess clearance is prudent.
You don't get popping extraction from lack of clearance. You get it from interference fit with your chamber and/or bad bolt timing. The interference occurs due to insufficient breech support for case pressure and area.
Excess sizing is only a band-aid for one firing at a time, and is not 'good' for cases nor consistent load pressures. Given this, it's better to address a root cause for YOUR problem, and accept that good reloaders who don't have your issue, can act appropriately and be just fine.
You should be surprised, and you should never accept anything like that.
It's not even in the same zip code as right.