I'm in the early learning process, so I have a question about parallax. I've read about and basically understand the concept. When I set my scope up at the range, I adjusted the parallax by focusing the target image as sharp as possible. The dot didn't seem to move around, so I thought that was good. The next time I went, it was considerably hotter and the image was out of sharp focus. I re-focused and used that. Is that normal to have the parallax/focus change.
The article I read indicated the parallax adjustment was not primarily for focusing. Is that true?
I have a Leupold 45x if that makes any difference.
Presumably/hypothetically, when the ocular focus is set first (reticle in perfect focus), and one sets the objective (target image) for perfect focus, regardless of eye/head position, the target and reticle images
should be in the same plane, thus the reticle, relative to the target image
should be "welded"/locked into place. The key word here being
SHOULD.

In the "real world", this is not always the case - mechanics/lenses are not always perfect.
Think of parallax affecting POA the same a sight alignment: essentially, the reticle is the rear sight and the target image is the front sight. That said, Paralax can be bassakwards - it can be set for either too near, or, to far,, however, it's still similar to sight alignment.
Faced with your dilemma, I'd opt for slightly/somewhat degraded image with a "locked-in" reticle (least movement possible) as opposed to a perfect image, with discernible reticle displacement when moving my head/eye.
In varying degrees of heat and humidity levels, focus may well be next to impossible: higher quality lenses and coatings can make a difference, or, "see through" mirage better than lesser lens quality - but as magnification increases, expect image quality to suffer. That's about as complicated as I want to get - just get out and gain experience until it, "falls together" for you.
Again, faced with the choice between a perfect image and observable reticle movement, I'd opt for for fixed reticle and degraded image: the lesser of the 2 evils.

RG