Your use of time does not apply to the problem in the way you think it does. The conservation of momentum says that the momentum of the gun, bullet and powder (I will treat the powder in burnt and unburnt the same as it does not effect the analysis)So, if that doesn’t apply to this situation, how would you propose to estimate the amount a rifle recoils at the time the bullet exits the muzzle?
Turning off reality isn’t an option in this case. Influences that are small can can be ignored as a practical matter, no?
Before you pull the trigger we assume that the the momentum of the system is zero. So if the conservation of momentum is applied when you pull the trigger the momentum of the system is zero, objects with velocities in opposite directions will have momenta of opposite sign since they are vectors. At the instant the bullet and gases leave the barrel and before the rifle impacts the shoulder (free-recoil is easiest to picture) the momentum of the system. I say before it impacts your shoulder to keep the external forces at zero. The speed of the bullet is easy to measure I am not sure what the speed of the burnt powder is but I am pretty certain some or most of it is moving at a pretty good clip when it goes from the high pressure environment inside the barrel to the low pressure atmospheric pressure outside the barrel. I don't know what the speed is but I am pretty sure that not all the gas is moving at the same speed which complicates the situation. There are assumptions made about the gas speed in every recoil calculator.
The speed and mass of the powder needs to be included as the mass of the powder is anywhere from 20%-40% of the bullet's mass. If you don't think the burnt powder impacts the recoil tell me "How do muzzle brakes work?"
The amount of time between when the bullet left the case to when it leaves the barrel has no impact so using time directly in the equation as you tried is not physically sound. I hope my explanation above is clear I don't have any more time to devote to this right now (plus I imagine I have bored 90% of the readers if they even got this far) so if you still think your use of time is valid we will have to agree to disagree and move forward. Trust me when I say your use of time is incorrect, I have spent more time working in this area than many and have the physics background such that most would accept what I say in this area on the subject discussed.